What's does it mean if you propose and she says "I'll think about it."

[The Spectacle]

:dunno:

[Miles]

it means no.

[Guado]

it means no.

+12

[Krystle Burger]

Yeah they're probably right :( If she hasn't been thinking about it already, then she probably isn't ready for it.

[benzbitch]

just walk away!!! walk away now.

[The Spectacle]

Its not me I heard it on the radio

[Dario99gst]

WTF dude?? you getting married when did this happen?? did you find a hot white girl and didnt tell me about it??

[Dario99gst]

*edit*

oh ok

[danmark007]

i'll think about it = she's moving out tomorrow

[Vito_Corleone]

It means that guy should fucking throw her out of a moving train.

[Billy]

Means you can't fuck her right and make her think about staying around and only getting dick from you for the rest of her life.


"you" being the super secret person on the radio that you heard about, of course.

[Joe]

FYI:

Newsflash... Drop her and move on.

You wanna know what my wife said last year when I proposed? "About time, now let's hit it..." :haha:

[Dano Moparo]

She's looking for better offers.

[UrLiLPlaYMatE692]

that might be a big step for her, maybe she isnt 100% ready to commit to you like that. Im sure she loves you, but maybe marriage isnt where she wants it to go right now. Give her time, and dont pressure her about her answer, that may make it worse. Ill think about it, seems like she wants to make sure your the one. good luck though

[Skittle]

Your a black man,you shouldnt have problems with ANY girl saying no.


In the mean time,send her my way.Give her some hood lovin' :lol:

[Joe]

that might be a big step for her, maybe she isnt 100% ready to commit to you like that. Im sure she loves you, but maybe marriage isnt where she wants it to go right now. Give her time, and dont pressure her about her answer, that may make it worse. Ill think about it, seems like she wants to make sure your the one. good luck though

See, the problem here is that obviously he thought that they "were ready" for this step, or else the dood would not have bothered asking.

It's simple. If she did not say yes, then it's time to hang it up... unless of course he met the chick last week... if they have been dating for over 2 yrs and she gave this answer, then ditch the chick...

BTW, was "this level" of commitment ever discussed prior? My wife and I talked about marriage many times as in "maybe one day we should" prior to my asking....

[Bucsfan]

It means your cock isn't pleasing enough to her.

[Billy]

BTW, was "this level" of commitment ever discussed prior? My wife and I talked about marriage many times as in "maybe one day we should" prior to my asking....
Agreed....I knew Frances' answer long before I ever actually asked...it was still a damn scary time actually having to do it even knowing she would say yes.

[UrLiLPlaYMatE692]

See, the problem here is that obviously he thought that they "were ready" for this step, or else the dood would not have bothered asking.

It's simple. If she did not say yes, then it's time to hang it up... unless of course he met the chick last week... if they have been dating for over 2 yrs and she gave this answer, then ditch the chick...

BTW, was "this level" of commitment ever discussed prior? My wife and I talked about marriage many times as in "maybe one day we should" prior to my asking....


yeah but as you said, maybe they never discussed it prior, and it was a bit of a shock to her. im a girl, and ill admit marriage is a big step, if i get married.. i want to stay married, so maybe she got cold feet before you hit the alter, better now then later

[Bucsfan]

yeah but as you said, maybe they never discussed it prior, and it was a bit of a shock to her. im a girl, and ill admit marriage is a big step, if i get married.. i want to stay married, so maybe she got cold feet before you hit the alter, better now then later

Yeah, you don't want her to be like that bitch from GA that got cold feet.

[Joe]

Agreed....I knew Frances' answer long before I ever actually asked...it was still a damn scary time actually having to do it even knowing she would say yes.

no shit... :haha:

I helped calm my fear by buying a badass ring though... haha I mean everyone knows that a chicks weakspot is a fat diamond ring... :haha: :naughty:

[tampamax]

It means the one proposing sucks at life. She probably see's the man as a wuss and needs some time to consider if she should settle for someone like. She doesn't want to say no because she cares deeply for the man, yet she doesn't want to say yes because she's just not that into him. Its hard for her to walk away because she has so much time invested in the relationship, and its a woman's nature to always know they have a saftey net.

Time to pack up the bags and move on.

[craig_302]

The pure, no bullshit answer is: RUN. RUN while you still have the chance. /thread

[Steez]

yeah but as you said, maybe they never discussed it prior, and it was a bit of a shock to her. im a girl, and ill admit marriage is a big step, if i get married.. i want to stay married, so maybe she got cold feet before you hit the alter, better now then later

Your 17, who cares what you think?

If I ask someone that I have invested time/money/feelings and they say "I'll think about it." after I actually wasted the time to propose I would just drop her and find someone else that won't waste my time/money/feeling.

[Joe]

Your 17, who cares what you think?

If I ask someone that I have invested time/money/feelings and they say "I'll think about it." after I actually wasted the time to propose I would just drop her and find someone else that won't waste my time/money/feeling.



:nworthy:

[The Spectacle]

ok I get it, so pretty much you're screwed. sucks for that guy on the radio.

[Fatalia]

I'm gonna have to disagree. It's a huge step, and maybe she really does need the time to think things through.
It's a life changing decision, and should be made rationally.
Obviously, if they've been together for a long time, she shouldn't have think about it for more than 5 minutes. But, if it's only been a year, maybe two.. or even three... she seriously may want to think about it and figure out if she really wants to spend the rest of her life with this person.
Alot of people "pop the question" too quick, or they're simply too young. And these are things the woman may want to think about.
Not all women think about marriage throughout the relationship, and not all women know ahead of time what they will say when the time comes. (Of course, I've thought about that alot.... and already know what I'd say to Jeff.. but that's not the point.)

Just my .02.

[98MODMTR]

just walk away!!! walk away now.


Yes..she is banging down way more people than just yourself.

[Karma]

+1FYI:

Newsflash... Drop her and move on.

You wanna know what my wife said last year when I proposed? "About time, now let's hit it..." :haha:

[UrLiLPlaYMatE692]

Your 17, who cares what you think?

If I ask someone that I have invested time/money/feelings and they say "I'll think about it." after I actually wasted the time to propose I would just drop her and find someone else that won't waste my time/money/feeling.

its my opinion you fuck. so leave the "age" drama out of it. were beyond that now.

[Karma]

+1its my opinion you fuck. so leave the "age" drama out of it. were beyond that now.

[Snookums]

its my opinion you fuck. so leave the "age" drama out of it. were beyond that now.

fuck or suck:dunno:

[UrLiLPlaYMatE692]

fuck. as in callin someone a "fuck". "it's my opinion 'you fuck'. lol

[Snookums]

Ok i was just wondering which u meant...dont get fiesty lol

[06CLS55AMG]

You got PUNK'D!?!?!?!

[Mars_302]

shes not ready to commit, Simple as that. Now its your choice if you wanna continue in hopes she is ready one day, or simply move on. There are a few factors that go along with it.. If I was with somebody for years, and things felt good,a nd she said that, my heart would be destroyed, the relationship would never be the same.

[Snookums]

You got PUNK'D!?!?!?!


:lol: :lmao: :haha:

[moldyhands]

FYI:

Newsflash... Drop her and move on.

You wanna know what my wife said last year when I proposed? "About time, now let's hit it..." :haha:
i was thinking more along the lines of, "before or after my sex change operation"?

[Southern Comfort]

That's a big fat way of being nice and saying no .... sorry man :(

[Hot Box]

Doh!

[The Spectacle]

its not me!!!!!!!!1111111

[Krystle Burger]

:lol: :lol: :lol: Yeah I don't think many people caught onto that

[Bucsfan]

wait what?

[arsoniq26]

Your 17, who cares what you think?

If I ask someone that I have invested time/money/feelings and they say "I'll think about it." after I actually wasted the time to propose I would just drop her and find someone else that won't waste my time/money/feeling.


And you're fucking 19??