For the ladies....

[98MODMTR]

How long does it take for you to decide wether you want to sleep with a guy?

[Silvia]

When I first met my husband we did it 3 weeks later ... Two weeks later he told me he loved me ... and like a month later we moved in together and got married the next year ...

[98MODMTR]

So it took you about 2 weeks to decide?

Where as your husband, obviously, decided in about 1/4 to 1/2 have second wether he sleep with you or not.

[Silvia]

Well he was my neighbor so he saw me all the time but we didn't know eachother so he prob decided that before he even met me !!! LOL

[98MODMTR]

Well he was my neighbor so he saw me all the time but we didn't know eachother so he prob decided that before he even met me !!! LOL


That's my boy!

[Vito_Corleone]

Only takes me about 10 minutes to decide whether im gonna bang a dude, and if i know he's got a big wang, it's only like 4 minutes.

[number_2]

:lol:

[Mars_302]

I see this thread being filled with 200 replies from guys and 5 replies from girls. Most of which will say" im not a whore, I dont look at men like that"

[Jeff]

When Im single, I think with me it's instantaneous. I'll sleep with just about any chick. :)

[Vito_Corleone]

I see this thread being filled with 200 replies from guys and 5 replies from girls. Most of which will say" im not a whore, I dont look at men like that"

Have you been paying attention to the general attitude of the women on here lately? If so, you'd know there's no fucking way most of them will be saying that.

[Silvia]

Have you been paying attention to the general attitude of the women on here lately? If so, you'd know there's no fucking way most of them will be saying that.


:cool:

[dragongirl]

If I go out on a date with a guy, then obviously I'm attracted to him, but when it comes to when I know if i want to sleep with him.... that takes a while longer. Depends on how open he is and what kind of vibe I'm getting from him.

[VeronicATM]

Depends on the guy. I have had sex within a few weeks. Some guys has been a few month. Never usually longer than that though.

[moldyhands]

If I go out on a date with a guy, then obviously I'm attracted to him, but when it comes to when I know if i want to sleep with him.... that takes a while longer. Depends on how open he is and what kind of vibe I'm getting from him.
Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa...

here's my question. the question asked, how long does it take to decide if you WANT to sleep with a guy. not how long to decide if you are going to do that.

is there a difference between when a woman wants to and when she decides to? for me, it means the same thing.

[Mars_302]

If I go out on a date with a guy, then obviously I'm attracted to him, but when it comes to when I know if i want to sleep with him.... that takes a while longer. Depends on how open he is and what kind of vibe I'm getting from him.

So you've never looked at a guy and been like "Oh my god, hes hot, I wonder what hes like in bed?"

[BUNNY]

So you've never looked at a guy and been like "Oh my god, hes hot, I wonder what hes like in bed?"

I don't want to sound like a whore, but I have...There are some guys out there that I am like damn he is hot and wonder that question, not saying I would walk up to him and ask him to fuck but yeah there are some men that are fine as hell. Now there are also some men that are cute but not until I get to know them on a personal level do they become sexually attractive.

[98MODMTR]

I don't want to sound like a whore, but I have...There are some guys out there that I am like damn he is hot and wonder that question, not saying I would walk up to him and ask him to fuck but yeah there are some men that are fine as hell. Now there are also some men that are cute but not until I get to know them on a personal level do they become sexually attractive.


See, either that's the HUGE difference between men and women or not. Men will have sex with any chic they deem hawt (soley based on being hawt) right there and then.

Now, either women think along these lines and aren't telling...or you really need to take a day or two to decide how you can justify to yourself getting another deep dicken'.

[BUNNY]

I think girls just don't want to sound like whores for saying they would sleep with a guy at first glance. Girls are whores if they do that, guys are pussies if they do not have sexual thoughts 24/7. If a girl was not afraid to be categorized as a whore I think more of them would say differently then they have been.


I mean if I came on here and said hell yeah I would and have fucked a guy the first day I met him????? You'd be like damn SLUT!

[98MODMTR]

I mean if I came on here and said hell yeah I would and have fucked a guy the first day I met him????? You'd be like damn SLUT!

Nooooooooooo.

We'd only think that if you slept with everybody BUT ourselfs.


Women that sleep with everybody but us = Sluts

[BUNNY]

So if we slept with every guy on TF we would not be sluts?

[98MODMTR]

So if we slept with every guy on TF we would not be sluts?


In all honesty...Nope, or at least not to the guys that you didn sleep with. The guys you didn't hook up would think your a slut...just jealously really.

[Vito_Corleone]

So if we slept with every guy on TF we would not be sluts?

In reality, only the girls that sleep with guys that run their mouths end up being labled a "slut", and, like Jayson said, you're only a slut to the people you HAVEN'T slept with, lol.

[98MODMTR]

like Jayson said, you're only a slut to the people you HAVEN'T slept with, lol.

Considered a champ to the ones you did. :bigthumb:

[dragongirl]

So you've never looked at a guy and been like "Oh my god, hes hot, I wonder what hes like in bed?"

:lol: No Jerm, I don't think " I wonder what he's like in bed?" I'm thinking "damn, he's hot I wonder if he will come over and talk to me."

[98MODMTR]

uh huh

[BUNNY]

Nooooooooooo.

We'd only think that if you slept with everybody BUT ourselfs.


Women that sleep with everybody but us = Sluts


Well then with that said.....who's first? :naughty:

J/K!!!!!!

[98MODMTR]

Well then with that said.....who's first? :naughty:

J/K!!!!!!

Don't play, it will only take a min. Promise I won't cum inside either.

[BUNNY]

:lol:

[Joann]

How long does it take me to decide if I WANT to sleep with a guy, or until I DO sleep with a guy? I can decide I WANT to in just a few days.

Jay and I slept together 2 weeks after I met him...

[uncle bens wildrice]

great discussion

[MicheleR]

I am not gonna lie I wanted to jump him on the first date, however I am not like that.
after a few weeks we did. about a month later we moved in together, and a few months later he proposed on my Birthday.

[VeronicATM]

In reality, only the girls that sleep with guys that run their mouths end up being labled a "slut", and, like Jayson said, you're only a slut to the people you HAVEN'T slept with, lol.

I like that point Colby!! :grin: But sometimes, you get around people who run their mouth for you. You don't even have to say anything.

[Karma]

If I want something serious out of the guy. One month. If I don't that night.

[moldyhands]

he proposed on my Birthday.nice, he's a hero!!! now he only has to worry about remember one date instead of separate dates for your b-day and your proposal date. and he didn't have to buy you a b-day gift:lmao:

[Fatalia]

Probably sound like a whore.. but right away I'll wonder what he's like in bed and wonder how hard it'd be for me to get him there. Wanting to, and following through are two different things though. I may WANT to sleep with someone, but that doesn't mean I WOULD. Does that make sense? :dunno:

[ChristiMarie]

Usually about a week. Doesn't mean I act on it in a week, but I still know I want to.

[Snookums]

I think girls just don't want to sound like whores for saying they would sleep with a guy at first glance. Girls are whores if they do that, guys are pussies if they do not have sexual thoughts 24/7. If a girl was not afraid to be categorized as a whore I think more of them would say differently then they have been.


I mean if I came on here and said hell yeah I would and have fucked a guy the first day I met him????? You'd be like damn SLUT!

+1,000,000,000 i swear yes correcto i posted some stuff about cum and all and i was jk and got called a whore!

[VeronicATM]

Who gives a shit who says what? I admitted that it can happen within a couple days to a couple weeks/months. Depends on the guy and how bad I want it. If I want it bad enough, I get it. If that makes me a whore, than, that's the way it is.

[Snookums]

I know i dont care but it just annoys me that i got called that over something so stupid you know!

[VeronicATM]

I know i dont care but it just annoys me that i got called that over something so stupid you know!
The less you show you care, the better.

[accord95]

i think most girls want to wait a couple weeks, but when you in the military and only come home on weekends, girls tend to forget that rule because they are not patient, but niether am i. when i met my wife, it took me a couple days, niether of us planned on it getting serious. but the sex was the best sex of my life, and she was mature with good plans for her future, she was level headed, so i didnt pass up the oportunity to get to know her better.

[VeronicATM]

When I first met my ex, I met him in Jan. We started dating in March. The day we were "official" we slept together. We ended up being together 8 years. . I have another "friend" that I was messing with for a while. I slept with him the first week or 2 of meeting him, and up until a month or so ago, he was my casual friend. Worked out perfect. No strings attached. In other words, sleeping with someone right away doesn't always turn into a bad situation