your girlfriend or boyfriend is

[chi town brat]

Okay. You meet, you date, you introduce them to your friends and they have no problem being friends with your friends. In fact your friends like your new girl/boyfriend.

This to you is a good thing or a bad thing?

~ discuss ~

[VeronicATM]

Good thing. My ex didn't like any of my friends, and I hated haivng to choose who to do what with on what day. I like when my man can get along with my friends, and we can all go and hang out and have a good time.

[Karma]

Yeah its def a good thing if ur man likes ur friends and vice versa!

[Pookie Bear]

always good.. my friends are very important to me.. and i see them on a daily basis.. if a significant other did not mesh with them it would cause alot of problems.. i normally bring them around the group before anything is even too serious...

[type-j-spec]

who cares what your friends think,i "had" friends who are no longer friends so why would i care what anybody thinks.

[racerpooh]

it's a good thing... until your friend decides to be a whore.

[Ian MMF]

Good and bad. Good for when you want to hang out with your mate and friends at the same time. Bad when the person you are dating or your friends can't keep it in their pants, or after the relationship is over and your ex is "part of the gang" now or is fucking all your friends.

[moldyhands]

who cares what your friends think,i "had" friends who are no longer friends so why would i care what anybody thinks.
that's a sure example of being whipped. i know, i've been there. then i realized that if a girl can't get along with your friends, chances are she isn't going to get along with you.... or worse, she'll change you. luckily i didn't change:lol:

if a girl doesn't like my friends, fuck her. literally, i'll fuck her and then when she can't come out with them, i'll find another.

[Joann]

I have no female friends...so I've never had this issue.

On the other hand...I am friends with all of Jays friends. They love me, I love them. He's only gotten jealous of me and one of his friends...and he got over that really fast.

[Yellow Saturn]

Good thing only most of the time we hang out with his friends not mine, but they are all cool.

[moldyhands]

I have no female friends...so I've never had this issue.

On the other hand...I am friends with all of Jays friends. They love me, I love them. He's only gotten jealous of me and one of his friends...and he got over that really fast.
i don't know you, and i'm not angling that at you at all.. but it brought to mind a characteristic i've noticed. girls that don't have female friends are usually very jealous of their men (by being suspicious of all women), and can NEVER tell when they're being hit on. (no woman is very good at knowing when they're being hit on, but girls with no female friends could get a dick slapped in their face, and they'd jerk it and think it was just "friendship").

once again, i really didn't mean this toward you, just girls i've known in the past with no female friends.

[1BADP71]

after a couple drinks everybodys friends ! so let em meet your friends first at a good bar :)

[littleluckee]

are you kidding?? thats always a good thing.

[AmandaR]

Good and bad. Good for when you want to hang out with your mate and friends at the same time. Bad when the person you are dating or your friends can't keep it in their pants, or after the relationship is over and your ex is "part of the gang" now or is fucking all your friends.


hahah i agree completely... i am best friends with all my friends that are girls boyfriends.. but they dont have to worry about anything like that with me. but i think its a good thing for the most part.. makes life alot easier...

[Hot Box]

good

[Sneakin Deacon]

most the women i meet are previously acquainted with friends of mine. so good in that aspect...but i also have friends with the mentality that when it comes down to getting some, it doesnt matter who the girl is.

[Ian MMF]

most the women i meet are previously acquainted with friends of mine. so good in that aspect...but i also have friends with the mentality that when it comes down to getting some, it doesnt matter who the girl is.

Sounds like you need new friends then.

[Sneakin Deacon]

eh, there are a couple i could replace, but for the most part, they are all good people.

[marsar]

I can relate to Joann on this one. I usually don't have many female friends... also, when I'm dating someone, I usually end up chillen with him and his friends just because of the simple fact that I get along with guys better...

and like Matt (moldy) said, I don't notice at all when a guy is hitting on me... he could cockslap me in my face and I wouldn't think he was interested (then again, that could go back to me being born with the wrong colored hair :lol: )...

EDIT: oh, and unlike Matt said, I don't get jealous... I give a guy plenty of space, but if I feel he's surpassing his boundaries, I give a hard tug on the leash

[Sneakin Deacon]

:bsflag:

[marsar]

:bsflag:

who are you raising a bs flag on?

[Sneakin Deacon]

the person who just quoted me. :)

[...mikey]

I want to like my girlfriends friends, but I dont want her to hang out with mine on a regular basis, and I won't hang out with hers on a regular basis.

This is assuming opposite sexes.

Way, way too much drama when you mix your koolaid with different flavors.


You won't even catch me near my friends girlfriends unless it's an emergency, getting food, etc. I won't ever ask for their number, ask to hang out with them, etc. And I expect the same of my friends, thats a boundary you dont pass. And AFAIK I'm an incredible friend.

[chi town brat]

I believe if you are a secure person you can handle your girl/boyfriend around your friends.

I also believe if you are a person who prefers to be the center of attention with your friends, you won't appreciate your girl/boyfriend being friends with your friends.

Hopefully each of you can understand that at times, you just need time with your friends.

[Joann]

i don't know you, and i'm not angling that at you at all.. but it brought to mind a characteristic i've noticed. girls that don't have female friends are usually very jealous of their men (by being suspicious of all women), and can NEVER tell when they're being hit on. (no woman is very good at knowing when they're being hit on, but girls with no female friends could get a dick slapped in their face, and they'd jerk it and think it was just "friendship").

once again, i really didn't mean this toward you, just girls i've known in the past with no female friends.

You have a great point. I agree 100% & I do know I'm a little jealous over Jay. I actually do have female friends, but they're 800 miles away in Virginia (where i grew up). I've tried to make friends with girls since I moved here 4 years ago...but it never seems to work out (sometimes their fault, sometimes mine).

Either way, I agree with you.

[number_2]

great thing. i try hard to get to know guys and girls who are dating my friends, and i've had the boyfriend-doesn't-get-along-with-your-friend(s) experience and it really made my life a living hell. if your significant other hooks up with your friend - and i really do believe this - they're both doing you a favor by showing you the type of people they really are.

[moldyhands]

great thing. i try hard to get to know guys and girls who are dating my friends, and i've had the boyfriend-doesn't-get-along-with-your-friend(s) experience and it really made my life a living hell. if your significant other hooks up with your friend - and i really do believe this - they're both doing you a favor by showing you the type of people they really are.
totally agree with that last sentence.

and as far as the significant other not getting along with your friends. find out early and it's not a problem... dump the girl (or guy) and move along.

[...mikey]

Now do you considering "getting along" hanging out all the time, etc,

or is getting along able to hang out whenever they both happen to be at the same place?

The girls Ive dated have always gotten along with my roommates, see them everyday, watch movies with them and i, bowling, etc.. but thats about it.

I mean, if someone cant get along with someone they see for 30 minutes max a day, somethings wrong.

I just dont see why anyone would want to hang out with their friends, AND their sig other all the time together. I would hang out with my friends to get a break and do shit she didn't enjoy, but that my friends did. Why in the world do you want to mix them together, then I'd bet if you ever wanted to hang out with just the friend, the girl would get pissed.

[moldyhands]

Now do you considering "getting along" hanging out all the time, etc,

or is getting along able to hang out whenever they both happen to be at the same place?

The girls Ive dated have always gotten along with my roommates, see them everyday, watch movies with them and i, bowling, etc.. but thats about it.

I mean, if someone cant get along with someone they see for 30 minutes max a day, somethings wrong.

I just dont see why anyone would want to hang out with their friends, AND their sig other all the time together. I would hang out with my friends to get a break and do shit she didn't enjoy, but that my friends did. Why in the world do you want to mix them together, then I'd bet if you ever wanted to hang out with just the friend, the girl would get pissed.
good point. no, i don't hang out with my buddy's girlfriends unless they're there. with the exception of a couple that i met both of them before they were together and are equal friends with. but i'm loyal to my friends, i'd never do that to him.

[Bucsfan]

It helps tremendously if you're friends w/ the girl (or boy) before you start dating them.

[Joann]

I hang out with Jays friends without him here...our house is the central location for his friends. ...and we also have the garage/shop. Everyone comes here to work on their Honda's etc.

[Chris]

Okay. You meet, you date, you introduce them to your friends and they have no problem being friends with your friends. In fact your friends like your new girl/boyfriend.

This to you is a good thing or a bad thing?

~ discuss ~

Depends on just how much they like them :rolleyes:

[98MODMTR]

it's a good thing... until your friend decides to be a whore.


Easy killer. She wanted the rail ride, and your boyfriend will always be more than willing to strap her on.

You gotta watch your back around other women. They are nothing but whores.

[ChristiMarie]

Easy killer. She wanted the rail ride, and your boyfriend will always be more than willing to strap her on.

You gotta watch your back around other women. They are nothing but whores.

Very true. My BF actually HATED my best friend, turns out he had a damn good reason. She was always trying to get in his pants when I wasn't around. Needless to say, the only friends I really have anymore ARE my BFs friends, and I get along with all of them.

It is definately a good thing though,a s long as they aren't getting to be too good of friends.

[accord95]

my best friend hooked me up with my wife when i was home on leave from the marines. she still works with one of my best friends at seminole casino. most of our friends are couples, so that makes it easier if we go out and do something.

[MicheleR]

Almost always we are hangin with Cisco's friends, they love me. I dont have many girl friends (too much drama) I prefer to hang out with guys on a friend level because girls are to fake nowadays and are always beggin for attention.

[GambitX]

its a good thing and bad, Some of my friends were very rude to Ashlee and i decided to just keep my distance from them because they could not respect the person I cared for. On the positive note I did meet all of Ashlee's friends and they call me more than her or at least her friends husbands LOL.

[accord95]

its a good thing and bad, Some of my friends were very rude to Ashlee and i decided to just keep my distance from them because they could not respect the person I cared for. On the positive note I did meet all of Ashlee's friends and they call me more than her or at least her friends husbands LOL.

having friendships with other couples is always easier, i only have a few single friends, and most of them i rarely see. alot of times i just hang out with the guys, but they are all married or in relationships.

[dragongirl]

Friends getting along with your bf/gf definately makes it easier to hang out together, but the important thing is if your parents approve/like them. Parents can sometimes be a better judge of character and intent than yourself. I guess love is really blind at times. :squint: