Communication

[JamesH]

Do you tell your SO when they do something you don't like or something that makes you mad? Or do you just not say anything and stick it out and hope that it might change?

[cornishcrx]

i will always tell them.

[Bald Guy]

Always say something......

[Karma]

no u tell them bc if you don't and keep it inside then you will explode.....

[DookieLuv!]

I dont let the little shit bother me, if I did I would complain just like a bitch and two bitches constantly complaining just wont work. Theres always gonna be shit in a relationship that irks you about the other person but if you bring up every little thing every time then your just gonna be one naggy little bitch. Suck it up and live with it.

[juke]

I always tell them.

[ChrisW]

maybe im special, but it takes a lot to piss me off. I don't get jealous. if a GF wants to do something that makes them happy ie. hang out with guy friends or ex BF's go to frat parties, be a stripper or go to strip clubs, whatever she wants to do is all good. Even if she wants to fool around with a guy i wouldn't really care as long as it didn't happen too often and i knew about it ahead of time i wouldn't give a shit. i can't remember anything that has upset me except when i find out that every ex i have had has cheated on me with a good friend. that is a little upsetting because it is a good friend and i wouldn't think that one of my friends would do that.
I know that nobody else thinks this way, but i just don't get upset. I don't see what makes me so special that i can go and controll a girl's life. i won't let a girl control me so why would i expect to do the same to someone else. do WHATEVER you want!

Now, back to the question at hand, I guess i would say something, but i just don't get upset. To me the purpose of a relationship is to have a good time and enjoy the company of others, so why let the little shit bother you. if it does then say something. And to anyone who simply doesn't believe me, too bad. i am not exaggerating anything. if i had a gf she could totally go fuck another guy if she really wanted to. better her ask me first then do it without telling me an then i would feel like a fucking idiot for not knowing. if i know first then i know she has to take a shower before i get some.

[JamesH]

Yea i definately don't let the little shit bother me, that just cause problems. Nobody is perfect so there is always going to be things about a certain person you don't like.

I guess im mostly wondering like for bigger things. Like something you know your SO doesnt like when you do it, but it seems like they think it's ok for them to do.

[DookieLuv!]

You cant bring up shit to a girl that bothers you, cuz all theyre gonna do is retaliate and try to justify why they do it and theyll give you examples of shit you do that pisses them off and it just turns into an argument. But every TF girl will come on here and say "but I'm not like that", "if my bf says something I do bothers him, I say OK hunny, I'm sorry, I will try to stop doing that".

[98MODMTR]

But every TF girl will come on here and say "but I'm not like that", "if my bf says something I do bothers him, I say OK hunny, I'm sorry, I will try to stop doing that".


Noticing that patern too? :lol:

[DookieLuv!]

Noticing that patern too? :lol:Yeah, TR girls are the absolute perfectess girlfriends.

[JamesH]

:lol:

Well if i have a girl and i say something she's doing that bothers me, that i know for a fact she would get pissed at me if i was doing it and i just get a big argument out of it then i know shes not a girl i want to be with. I want to be in a fair relationship.

[Kristin]

Even if she wants to fool around with a guy i wouldn't really care as long as it didn't happen too often and i knew about it ahead of time i wouldn't give a shit. i can't remember anything that has upset me except when i find out that every ex i have had has cheated on me with a good friend.

So you don't care if your girlfriend cheats as long as it's not your good friend?? :lmao:


I bitch about everything. I'm a woman, that's what we do.

[ImportLuv]

maybe im special, but it takes a lot to piss me off. I don't get jealous. if a GF wants to do something that makes them happy ie. hang out with guy friends or ex BF's go to frat parties, be a stripper or go to strip clubs, whatever she wants to do is all good. Even if she wants to fool around with a guy i wouldn't really care as long as it didn't happen too often and i knew about it ahead of time i wouldn't give a shit. i can't remember anything that has upset me except when i find out that every ex i have had has cheated on me with a good friend. that is a little upsetting because it is a good friend and i wouldn't think that one of my friends would do that.
I know that nobody else thinks this way, but i just don't get upset. I don't see what makes me so special that i can go and controll a girl's life. i won't let a girl control me so why would i expect to do the same to someone else. do WHATEVER you want!

Looks like we have a swinger here.
Yeah, i agree with you about not controlling gf/bf. Sooner or later, he/she will do something behind your back, thus series of lies will start to pile up.

[Nikon]

Depends on what it was that happened. Small stuff wouldn't bother me. Unless it was an endless amount of small things that would eventually bring me to a point of asking another question to see if there were a bigger problem.

[Vito_Corleone]

Do you tell your SO when they do something you don't like or something that makes you mad? Or do you just not say anything and stick it out and hope that it might change?

Hun, what'd i do? I thought we agreed to keep our bidness off of TF?!?

[ChrisW]

So you don't care if your girlfriend cheats as long as it's not your good friend?? :lmao:


I bitch about everything. I'm a woman, that's what we do.



It may sound wierd but like I said a woman can make her own decisions. i just wouldn't want one of those decisions to be fucking a good friend of mine. aside from that she can do whatever she wants. its not my place to make decisions for her. My last GF broke up with me because she said i didn't care. when i asked her if she would have preferred that i was over critical and telling her who she could and couldn't hang out with she didn't have an answer.

Do what you want. Whenever you want to. who cares what someone else thinks.

[JamesH]

Hun, what'd i do? I thought we agreed to keep our bidness off of TF?!?

Shhh, no one knew it had to do with me and you untill you posted that ;).

[ChrisW]

:lol: after all, your score was pretty high on the "how gay are you" test.:lol:

[VeronicATM]

Yes, I would say something. But that's just me. I am a very verbal person lol. Someone can't change what's wrong unless they know what they are doing and why it bothers you sooo bad.

[1BADP71]

I know most girls how they act and all that but i grew up with 4 brothers and 5 guy cousins and pretty much all of my friends are guys so i see how their girl friends are and all that my whole life i have been around guys so the little things that make most girls mad or what not doesnt bother me!


i dont mean to dig up the garden , but i do recall you getting mad at somebody that you weren't even seeing . over something silly :P

[Regina]

If it's that important, tell them.

[Tackleberry]

i dont tell my Security Officer anything

["?"]

Yes I do if it's serious, if it's dumb shit I don't bother.

[Strongest Man In The World]

Yeah, TR girls are the absolute perfectess girlfriends.
yeap!

and every dood is swining 9"s plus.. TF is a perfect little Unicorn world!

[DookieLuv!]

Only because of the whole situation he was making it out to like i was trying to be controlling when i asked a simple question! :crack:hmmmm......what did I say about girls justifying it and retaliating???

[98MODMTR]

hmmmm......what did I say about girls justifying it and retaliating???

spot on

[moldyhands]

hmmmm......what did I say about girls justifying it and retaliating???
you couldn't have PLANNED that better... bua ha ha ha:lol:

as for the dude that lets your girl cheat on you... you're special all right... short bus special. that's not you being cool and not caring, that's you not knowing how to stand up to a girl.

[Guado]

I let it go a few times and if it keeps going then I stop EVERYTHING and make sure I get it taken care of right then and there. I make sure she does the same. I hate the stupid little games where I get snapped at for no reason because she is mad at something I never knew bugged her. I got that taken care of because that pisses me off more than anythign in the world.

She knows I expect to know when I make her mad/upset or whatever because I can only fix what I know I Am doing wrong and vice versa. Otherwise nothing gets accomplished and you have two people that are always pissy and no one knows why.

[Angry Pirate]

I used to just keep it to myself if something they did or said bothered me but not anymore...I'm all about telling them, always

[1BADP71]

most the time ppl know when im not happy with something . i usually dont have to say anything . but if i have to i will . depends on the situation and circumstances really . im just easy going .

[number_2]

i have issues with this, actually. first i have people telling me to stop bottling things up and talk about the shit that bothers me, then i have people telling me to quit nagging them about everything. fuck all of you.

:lol:

[Jeff]

Not a whole lot bothers me when Im with a girl. I have a few simple rules, and if they're broken I make it very clear. The rest of the shit that bugs me is petty, and I generally don't bother even sayin anything about it, unless she would start getting pissed at me for the same thing. Which is crazy. So then I'd say something. Otherwise, I'd forget about it in 10 minuites because Im blessed(cursed?) with the memory of a braindead goldfish.

[98MODMTR]

i have issues with this, actually. first i have people telling me to stop bottling things up and talk about the shit that bothers me, then i have people telling me to quit nagging them about everything. fuck all of you.

:lol:

I will listen to you :P

[Frankie]

I'm very verbal with my girl when she does something I like or do not like. I know she's not a mind reader, so unless I tell her I want her to do something or not do something, she'll never know.

[dragongirl]

Hmm, usually try to tell them when it becomes an issue. It depends on the guy and how much he is willing to compromise to make the relationship work. I've had experiences where you tell the other person the same things over and over and over again and they just don't give a shit. :rant:

[noname]

i always say something

[ChristiMarie]

pfft, he knows whenever he does something shitty. If it's a small thing, I let it go, unless it's constant.