How do women feel about getting holla'd at in public?

[Frankie]

I was listening to the MJ Morning Show this morning on the way to work, and they were talking about some site called hollabacknyc.com where girls would take pictures of the guys that holla'd at them and post 'em. Then, he had girls call in and give their opinions on being holla'd at. Surprisingly, a lot of girls called in and said it made them feel self-conscious and degraded, and honestly, I don't fucking get it. If someone comes up to me in public and says, "Damn, you're a good looking motherfucker! I'd like to ride you hard and put you away wet," it's an ego boost for me. I don't understand how getting a compliment from a stranger, even if vulger, can make someone feel self-conscious. Isn't that like the total opposite of the normal reaction to a compliment? If this is the case, why do you women get all made up and dressed up before you go out? Wouldn't you be better off going out with no makeup on so nobody would tell you that you're good looking? I'm 100% confused.

[moldyhands]

2 reasons:

1. women don't like to fuck, they usually want some emotional attachment to the guy before they spread the legs.
2. women HATE to have the spotlight put on them in public. so when you do something loud to get their attention, they're embarrassed, because you got every other person's attention as well.

now i've never run into a girl that got pissed if i just went up and talked to her in a normal voice. even if they weren't interested, they didn't get pissed.

[Frankie]

Makes no sense. If someone calls me out in public, I don't get all freaked out. Plus, telling a girl she's fine doesn't mean that she has to fuck you. It's just a compliment. I think my car is good looking, but I don't want to fuck it.

[Spydergirl]

2 reasons:

1. women don't like to fuck, they usually want some emotional attachment to the guy before they spread the legs.
2. women HATE to have the spotlight put on them in public. so when you do something loud to get their attention, they're embarrassed, because you got every other person's attention as well.

now i've never run into a girl that got pissed if i just went up and talked to her in a normal voice. even if they weren't interested, they didn't get pissed.
LMFAO......Women (or at least this one) likes to Fuck. Now that doesn't mean I will fuck any Tom, Dick or Harry or be a whore, but for the love of all that is holy, it is ONLY SEX, it isn't some gd gateway to a commitment or a relationship.
I think it is funny when a guy 'hollars at me, I normally hollar right back,
Shake my ass, bend over and "fix my shoe" or do something silly. It is an ego boost for anyone.
Everyone likes attention, hell thats why I wear lowriding jeans and a g-string when I ride a bike.

[Krystle Burger]

It's all on you do it. For example, where I work, I have to cross the street everyday. I complained for the longest time because of how horrible it was trying to cross the street without people honking/yelling/acting disgusting. Finally they allowed me to park somewhere else nearby but that recent parking situation fell through.

Again, I think it just depends on how guys do/say it.

[Spydergirl]

Makes no sense. If someone calls me out in public, I don't get all freaked out. Plus, telling a girl she's fine doesn't mean that she has to fuck you. It's just a compliment. I think my car is good looking, but I don't want to fuck it.:lol: I have dated a few guys who loved there damn car/bike so much I wonderd if they were fucking it!:lmao:

[Spydergirl]

Again, I think it just depends on how guys do/say it.
True.......if someone is real nasty, I don't get upset or hollar back and act silly. I just think to myself ...... ha,dude you have no chance in hell of EVER hittin this.

[Frankie]

True.......if someone is real nasty, I don't get upset or hollar back and act silly. I just think to myself ...... ha,dude you have no chance in hell of EVER hittin this.

Exactly, but you're not offended, degraded, or have lower self-esteem. You just laugh it off like, "What a poor sap who has no game," which is exactly what it is. These girls on the radio actually offended me they were so prude and stuck up.

[number_2]

i laugh. i always laugh. i don't know how else to react. and it doesn't make me feel degraded, but it does make me self conscious. i don't like to be the center of attention.

[VeronicATM]

2 reasons:

1. women don't like to fuck, they usually want some emotional attachment to the guy before they spread the legs.
2. women HATE to have the spotlight put on them in public. so when you do something loud to get their attention, they're embarrassed, because you got every other person's attention as well.

now i've never run into a girl that got pissed if i just went up and talked to her in a normal voice. even if they weren't interested, they didn't get pissed.

This is another prime example of why I differ from most girls. For one, I totally disagree with #1. :lol: But thats already known.

For two, I do somewhat agree with #2. If its done tactifully, I dont get upset. It all depends on how its done. If done in a good way, being holla'd at in public is like what Frank said. An ego boost imo.

[Frankie]

it does make me self conscious. i don't like to be the center of attention.

Shocker of the century. I almost had a heart attack.

[Karma]

2. women HATE to have the spotlight put on them in public. so when you do something loud to get their attention, they're embarrassed, because you got every other person's attention as well.

DING FUCKING DING

[VenoMiss]

I don't mind being the center of attention, but when it's unwanted attention from guys that have no f'kin chance, it annoys me. I'm a nice person and I don't wanna give positive feedback, so I just ignore it. At times its funny to see guys act like fumbling idiots so I'll lol. As far as dressing up, wearing make up and all that... I can't speak for all girls but I do that stuff mostly cause it makes me feel good knowing that I look good. I'm not that insecure where I need attention from guys so I can feel good about myself.

[moldyhands]

note everyone (and i think only Karma understood what i meant), women don't like having the spotlight put on them in public. this isn't being the center of attention, it's everyone in public looking at you to see what you're going to do next. all women want to be the center of attention, just not under a spotlight.

as for the women liking to fuck thing. sure, there are exceptions, but overall, women need an emotional bond to spread their legs. whether real or imaginary.

[Holly Golightly]

omg hahaha i absolutely HATE when guys try to redlight pimp me. i just laugh usually or tell em to fuck off. the best is when they do it when my bf is with me! are they serious?!!! :lol:

[moldyhands]

omg hahaha i absolutely HATE when guys try to redlight pimp me. i just laugh usually or tell em to fuck off. the best is when they do it when my bf is with me! are they serious?!!! :lol:
what? so you mean if i yell something to the effect of, "hey girl" out my car window at you as your boyfriend and you are leaving the mall, you're NOT going to jump in my car and start blowing me?

this is absolute bullshit. no wonder so many guys turn to rape and homosexuality.

[Frankie]

the best is when they do it when my bf is with me!

Why does the boyfriend make a difference? I don't understand.

[VeronicATM]

note everyone (and i think only Karma understood what i meant), women don't like having the spotlight put on them in public. this isn't being the center of attention, it's everyone in public looking at you to see what you're going to do next. all women want to be the center of attention, just not under a spotlight.

as for the women liking to fuck thing. sure, there are exceptions, but overall, women need an emotional bond to spread their legs. whether real or imaginary.

I got your point and agree. I wont bother disputing the other half of your statement... I guess in some ways you're right, but that really depends on the girl. Girls can be just as heartless as some guys.

[VenoMiss]

Why does the boyfriend make a difference? I don't understand.

It's just disrespectful to they're relationship. But, depends how its done... sometimes its so retarded, its funny :D

Guys may see it as a ego boost, cause 'hey the girls with me' kinda attitude. Girls take it differently..for the most part, we're not so much ego driven :P

[Frankie]

It's just disrespectful to they're relationship. But, depends how its done... sometimes its so retarded, its funny :D

I'm almost always retarded, maybe that's why nobody has tried to kick my ass yet. Either that or it's because I'm 6'2" :lol:

[Strangeholliday]

I Dont really like it when guys are trying to " holla " at my girl when i'm right there.. I feel like their doing it more to egg me on more than anything.. I'm a small guy 5.7 150 lbs.. i'll probly lose most fights but if you think your coming back with all your fingers your wrong. dead wrong.. I'll bite one of those bitches off.. I'll make you have to tell a story everytime you meet someone new and wonders.. why nine ?

youfuck with me.. you get fucked with.. thats a fucking promise.. - the goat

[Epicman]

It's just disrespectful to they're relationship. But, depends how its done... sometimes its so retarded, its funny :D

Guys may see it as a ego boost, cause 'hey the girls with me' kinda attitude. Girls take it differently..for the most part, we're not so much ego driven :P

Is there is buddhist in the eye in your sig???

[Frankie]

I Dont really like it when guys are trying to " holla " at my girl when i'm right there.. I feel like their doing it more to egg me on more than anything.. I'm a small guy 5.7 150 lbs.. i'll probly lose most fights but if you think your coming back with all your fingers your wrong. dead wrong.. I'll bite one of those bitches off.. I'll make you have to tell a story everytime you meet someone new and wonders.. why nine ?

youfuck with me.. you get fucked with.. thats a fucking promise.. - the goat

People holla at my girl all the time. I take it as a compliment. If other people want to bang her, that means she's hot, so I'm doing something right.

[Strangeholliday]

People holla at my girl all the time. I take it as a compliment. If other people want to bang her, that means she's hot, so I'm doing something right.

how many times have you been to a club and while your gf walks by some guy grabs her ass.. ?

[VenoMiss]

Is there is buddhist in the eye in your sig???

It's Buddha and yes he was a Buddhist :D

[moldyhands]

People holla at my girl all the time. I take it as a compliment. If other people want to bang her, that means she's hot, so I'm doing something right.
you also wear makeup, tight jeans, tight shirts, have lots of tats, and ride a harley. those things aren't bad (except for the harley:lol: ), but not everyone is the same.

[pureballer78]

what if an guy pull up with an $100k+ car..and holla at them i bet you they react totally different.even if you tried to pull away,they be still chase after yall...:lol: :D

[Frankie]

how many times have you been to a club and while your gf walks by some guy grabs her ass.. ?

Only once. I choked the guy off of his feet, WWE style. I don't mind holla's, just don't touch. Again, I'm pretty big, so most people know better. This guy was just an idiot.

[Frankie]

you also wear makeup, tight jeans, tight shirts, have lots of tats, and ride a harley. those things aren't bad (except for the harley:lol: ), but not everyone is the same.

Huh? :?

[Strangeholliday]

Only once. I choked the guy off of his feet, WWE style. I don't mind holla's, just don't touch. Again, I'm pretty big, so most people know better. This guy was just an idiot.


i seriously want to carry around mace or something, its a simple solution to a growing epidemic in the tampa area.. Theres really no law against using mace. As soon as you feel threatened bam!.. nap time son.. anyone that has been sprayed with mace knows that shit is no joke.. Your nostrils flare up and mucus comes out like woah!... you drop to the ground and start to feel my urine strike your head and upper body while mumbling obscenities..

oh yes.. its a good night for me.. oh yes. " off to the movies ladyfriend? "

" sure i want to see final destination 3".. BAM! .. she falls to the ground while being struck with the second wrath of mace.. i mumble more obscenities about that movie and how wrong it was of her to mention it in my presence..

" we're going home ".... * action- bitch gets in car.. doesn't speak...

[Frankie]

What? :?

[Epicman]

It's Buddha and yes he was a Buddhist :D

Ooops....meant to say Buddha. As you can tell by my sentence structure I wasn't thinking properly. :lol:

[Strangeholliday]

* she doesn't speak on the whole ride home until.. our song comes on .

" take me home tonight i dont wanna let you go to see the light.. " I sing the man part. she sings the small lady portion.. " be my lil baby.. ohhhh oh woahhh. "

its all good now.

we reach home. i'm still angry with her.. but shes all hot and horny.. I'm not up for real sex. So i put it in her butt. and mumble something along the lines of " you bleed the first time you know ? " " what ? " " nothing just forget it.. bam.. i slip the love knuckle in first.. some blood.. , as i notice a single tear roll down the right side of her face.. I start to realize ! "wow this girl really loves me " .. i step to the side , one leg up.. ( captain morgan style, totally unaware of my completely nude body.. and ask her to marry me.. she says yes.. half out of fear and half out of me totally neglecting her anus now..

we buy a house in valrico, white picket fence, maybe a boat with 2.5 kids.. and a lab..

[Euphoria]

is it wrong im completely lost here? :dunno: :(

[Kristin]

For me it just depends on what you say.....and on how attractive I find you, lol.


Mostly how hot I find you. I'm shallow.

[Frankie]

For me it just depends on what you say.....and on how attractive I find you, lol.


Mostly how hot I find you. I'm shallow.

Are you sure you're not a man? I keep agreeing with you on shit in this forum, and frankly, that's wrong.

[Epicman]

I'm shallow.


We all knew that already. :lol:

[VenoMiss]

is it wrong im completely lost here? :dunno: :(

I'm a lil lost on StrangeHolliday's replies myself...I think he was narrating a chain of events..but I'm still unsure of the whole point :lol:

[Strangeholliday]

For me it just depends on what you say.....and on how attractive I find you, lol.


Mostly how hot I find you. I'm shallow.

everyone is shallow.. come on.. its nothing to be ashamed of..

oh and just disregard my previous posts.. pills are kicking in now. (legally of course )

[VenoMiss]

Ooops....meant to say Buddha. As you can tell by my sentence structure I wasn't thinking properly. :lol:

I knew what you meant :) It's all good.

[Jeff]

Nice shoes.... :lol:

Strangeholliday... You need therapy.

[RichWarChild]

People holla at my girl all the time. I take it as a compliment. If other people want to bang her, that means she's hot, so I'm doing something right.


Your wife is pretty fucking hot Frank... Hell she's a model even.

[VeronicATM]

Your wife is pretty fucking hot Frank... Hell she's a model even.

+1

[Kristin]

Are you sure you're not a man? I keep agreeing with you on shit in this forum, and frankly, that's wrong.


I don't have enough girlfriends. :lol:


Seriously though, if the guy yesterday didn't have a gold grill and had been hot...it wouldn't have mattered that he used some cheesy "Do you like bad boys?" line. I would have went for it. :dunno:

[Strangeholliday]

Nice shoes.... :lol:

Strangeholliday... You need therapy.


they're boat shoes.. and i jsut got them.... i think their called " mainsails" but thanks..

[VeronicATM]

I don't have enough girlfriends. :lol:


Seriously though, if the guy yesterday didn't have a gold grill and had been hot...it wouldn't have mattered that he used some cheesy "Do you like bad boys?" line. I would have went for it. :dunno:

I have to agree here. If you're hot, then you say what you want :lol:

[Karma]

note everyone (and i think only Karma understood what i meant), women don't like having the spotlight put on them in public. this isn't being the center of attention, it's everyone in public looking at you to see what you're going to do next. all women want to be the center of attention, just not under a spotlight.

as for the women liking to fuck thing. sure, there are exceptions, but overall, women need an emotional bond to spread their legs. whether real or imaginary.
+1 That is the only thing that bothers me is everyone I don't care male or female looking at me. When a guy does whistle holla whatever you call it I pay them no attention. I hate when guys do that too. Like yesterday I was driving to my mailbox and 2 guys screames HEY stop I didn't even look. I hate it. IF I like a guy I will step to them.. No way would I give the guy a chance if he acted like that....Hint hint hint to guys who do this annoying thing...Lol..

[Frankie]

"Do you like bad boys?"

Does that even work? I prefer, "Ever been for a ride on a Harley?" Works like a charm on drunk chicks.

Yeah my wife is hot. You all need to sign up for her website when it opens.

[RichWarChild]

"Do you like bad boys?"

Does that even work? I prefer, "Ever been for a ride on a Harley?" Works like a charm on drunk chicks.

Yeah my wife is hot. You all need to sign up for her website when it opens.


I prefer the line.

"Ever try a pierced dick?"

[Frankie]

I prefer the line.

"Ever try a pierced dick?"

True story. Girls have gotten me naked just to see my perforated bean bag before. While they're down there, they usually just decide to blow me. I'm not going to tell them no.

[RichWarChild]

Yeah my wife is hot. You all need to sign up for her website when it opens.

Will she be naked :lol::monkspk:

[Strangeholliday]

I prefer the line.

"Ever try a pierced dick?"


ya but their next question is always.. " so you have to sit down to piss ? "

[Frankie]

Will she be naked :lol::monkspk:

The way she puts it, "I'll be tastefully topless," so yeah. That's naked enough in my book.

[Kristin]

:lmao:

I usually don't mention mine because it's followed by "can I see it?"

[VeronicATM]

I prefer the line.

"Ever try a pierced dick?"

:lol: Thats defintely a good one. haha

[xKAOSx]

I prefer the line.

"Ever try a pierced dick?"


Yeah when I mention it, I get a reply of gross, did it hurt?, whats it look like?, or the occasional, damn thats hot, can i see it?

[RichWarChild]

The way she puts it, "I'll be tastefully topless," so yeah. That's naked enough in my book.


I must reitterate... your a lucky lucky man.....

[RichWarChild]

seriously.... I've gotten more ass because girls we're just curious about it

[Frankie]

:lmao:

I usually don't mention mine because it's followed by "can I see it?"

You have a pierced dick? I'm totally confused.

[VeronicATM]

seriously.... I've gotten more ass because girls we're just curious about it

:lol: I believe that.

[RichWarChild]

:lmao:

I usually don't mention mine because it's followed by "can I see it?"

I'll show you mine if you show me yours... :lol:

[Frankie]

seriously.... I've gotten more ass because girls we're just curious about it

Chicks tell me I sound like I'm wearing spurs when I cruise around naked. Cha-ching, cha-ching, cha-ching.

[RichWarChild]

I'm affraid to add more piercings since I set off a metal detector at the airport once...

and no, i'm not joking

[Kristin]

You have a pierced dick? I'm totally confused.



:naughty:

[RichWarChild]

If she has a dick, i'm turning bi...

:P

[Spydergirl]

I'm affraid to add more piercings since I set off a metal detector at the airport once...

and no, i'm not joking:lmao:

[Frankie]

I'm affraid to add more piercings since I set off a metal detector at the airport once...

and no, i'm not joking

The wand really picks 'em up. The woman at TIA looked at me so weird when my crotch set the thing off. I'm so glad she didn't make me whip out the old mean bean machine.

[RichWarChild]

The wand really picks 'em up. The woman at TIA looked at me so weird when my crotch set the thing off. I'm so glad she didn't make me whip out the old mean bean machine.


Yeah the wand got me. I sat there for 30 minutes arguing with them and they kept telling me i had to take it out. I told hem I needed plyers to take it out and they wouldn't give me any. They sent me back to my airline where the guy counter help smiled at me and said "Ohh you have a prince"... Finally they brought me to a side room with a state trooper and one of the security guys and stripped me down to my boxers. The statey was obviously embaressed but had all these questions about it like.

Why don't I carry plyers with me to take it out?
Can I actually have sex with it in?
Did it hurt?
What the fuck were you thinking?

[Frankie]

:lmao:

That's fucking classic!

[MicheleR]

I cant not stand it when you are standing outside at work and people randomly drive by and
1 whistle and honk the horn
2 yell Hey baby, come here, you is fine, where you going

I am fine and I know this I didnt ask for your damn opinion, I will flick someone off real quick, mind your own damn buisness and move along.
the only person I want ot hear this form is my man, no one else really matters to me.

Michele

[Duceanahalf]

Will she be naked :lol::monkspk:

I found some. www.google.com

[Jordan T]

some old lady totally looked me up and down today.

[eksilver1]

ya i think when you holla at a girl in public aint that bad its when you sit behind a computer and send pic and shit to them is kind of the pussy way of doing things but thats just me ... you need to respect woman if not ya probabley dont respect yaself that would explain the makeup peace

[*Jennifer*]

I hate it when guys say something to me in public...because honestly they are never cute! They are ugly...even on myspace they do it. Maybe if they were nice about it like hey I think your pretty instead of hey girl you fine as hell...it might mean something different. I hate getting hit on!

[intrigue]

I was listening to the MJ Morning Show this morning on the way to work, and they were talking about some site called hollabacknyc.com where girls would take pictures of the guys that holla'd at them and post 'em. Then, he had girls call in and give their opinions on being holla'd at. Surprisingly, a lot of girls called in and said it made them feel self-conscious and degraded, and honestly, I don't fucking get it. If someone comes up to me in public and says, "Damn, you're a good looking motherfucker! I'd like to ride you hard and put you away wet," it's an ego boost for me. I don't understand how getting a compliment from a stranger, even if vulger, can make someone feel self-conscious. Isn't that like the total opposite of the normal reaction to a compliment? If this is the case, why do you women get all made up and dressed up before you go out? Wouldn't you be better off going out with no makeup on so nobody would tell you that you're good looking? I'm 100% confused.

ever been to nyc? the kinda guys who holla at you are a kind of their own. it happens all the time up there but down here it's a little different...and the guys aren't quite as aggressive down here. send some of the girsl who called into the MJ show up to NYC for a day and they'll have a new appreciation of being holla'd at down in FL ;) and for the record, girls don't want to be figured out.

[Angry Pirate]

Again, I think it just depends on how guys do/say it.

+1