Satisfaction

[dragongirl]

Ladies, here's an entertaining lil question. Whether you are with your guy and he gets done before you, or for whatever reason you don't get yours, or you're by yourself, how do you prefer to get yourself there... the big O.

I've read in so many magazines that many women are just NOT happy with their sex lives, whether it's frequency, quality,lack of passion, or not comfy with their body/their guy, but they can get off on their own. What's the deal?

Guys if you can't get her there, are you offended if or how she does?

[juke]

Yeah....this is a very interesting question. If I cannot get her there I am not offended, but what I would be offended by is not having an open line of communication and trying new things to get her there. If the girl has it stuck in her mind that she cannot get there with me or with my help, then there is no reason to try because I am sure that other areas of the relationship will suffer.

[JamesH]

Yeah....this is a very interesting question. If I cannot get her there I am not offended, but what I would be offended by is not having an open line of communication and trying new things to get her there. If the girl has it stuck in her mind that she cannot get there with me or with my help, then there is no reason to try because I am sure that other areas of the relationship will suffer.

+1

Communication plays a big part. If they're not open enough to talk about how to make things better in the sex department then they obviously won't be great at communication for anything else in the relationship either. If somethings not working right i'm going to ask what i can do to make it better or suggest things that might make things better. I like to hear suggestions from the other side too without having to constantly ask.

[...mikey]

my ego would die if i couldnt get a girl off in some way shape form

[BAMF]

I feel horrible if she doesn't have as least 2 orgasms before me. I feel like I failed and the sex was useless if she has none and I come...

But oddly enough, even when I come once and am still ready to go for however much longer, she always says its not as fun because I already came...I'm like "Baby, I'll just come again, it'll just take a lot longer!" But I thought she wanted longer, but then she doesn't, WTF ladies can you shed any light on this?

[adrian_302]

as long as i cum who gives a shit? :lol:

[pureballer78]

no complain here!!..rough sex make its hurts!!:naughty: :D

[ChristiMarie]

I don't like masturbating for some reason. Pat and I have figured out the perfect way to get the job done without penetration though.

[Salstang]

Then it's time for a new man. I myslef would not go to bed unless my girl had the "O" Whatever it took, hands, tongue, toys..... I don't care.

[The Spectacle]

as long as i cum who gives a shit? :lol:

+1

[Frankie]

Guys if you can't get her there, are you offended if or how she does?

What she does on her own time is up to her. After I drop my garbage I'm either sleeping or on my way home, and I don't care what she's doing either way.

[SuperCinCin]

Ladies, here's an entertaining lil question. Whether you are with your guy and he gets done before you, or for whatever reason you don't get yours, or you're by yourself, how do you prefer to get yourself there... the big O.

I've read in so many magazines that many women are just NOT happy with their sex lives, whether it's frequency, quality,lack of passion, or not comfy with their body/their guy, but they can get off on their own. What's the deal?

Guys if you can't get her there, are you offended if or how she does?

Well I have yet to Not get the 'Big O' with my man. If he does go first he'll just work me for like another 2 seconds :lol:
I used to be VERY unhappy with my sex life and it was from all of the above ^^^^^ and the fact that I never really had the real 'Big O' just made it worse. It was alright just missing something. I didn't do anything thing though... I was just like whatever, playing with myself just isn't my thing :dunno:

[2kSnakeater]

she usualy has 2-5 "Os" before me, so Iv never had that problem

[MicheleR]

I never had the big O untill I met Cisco, so you can say I am pretty happy and staying where I am. :naughty:

[PantySniffer]

Pat and I have figured out the perfect way to get the job done without penetration though.

and this would be?:dunno:

[NeENeRs]

i pretty much always get off. i don't really care for masturbating but i've agreed that i'll do it sometime just so he can watch :dunno:

i think women that aren't happy with their sex lives, it's due to lack of communication. guys aren't psychics. they don't hear a beep getting faster or louder the closer to the spot they get.

women need to be vocal. say "yeah right there", scream, grunt, friggen snort :lol: just let him know when he's doing a good job

[Billy]

Hows a real man know when a womans cum?








A real man doesn't care.

[SuperCinCin]

guys aren't psychics. ...
women need to be vocal. say "yeah right there", scream, grunt, friggen snort :lol: just let him know when he's doing a good job

+1

[rx7mpguy84]

Ive never had a girl not have an orgasm, that and i think all women lie. haha. so idk. I seem to be doing a good job when im hitting it hard and fast and there screaming, but thats just me

[Katrina]

All I gotta say is "I gets mines" whether I am w/someone...or alone...I takes care of bidniss...you have to be very in touch with your own sexuality and be able to know what makes you feel good...if you don't "O" then you need to do some "soul searchin'"

[dragongirl]

Oh this thread isn't in reference to my life, :lol:

I just noticed that the majority of the women I talk to and articles I've read recently all seem to focus on the woman not being satisfied and/or not being in touch with what they want or how to get it done. What's up with that? Guys, for the most part want their partners to be satisfied, so they in turn feel like "the man".

I've known girls who are dating, engaged and even married who are still not comfy with sex, their bodies, and letting go to climax with their guy... That is no way to have a good sex life. :dunno:

[moldyhands]

Guys if you can't get her there, are you offended if or how she does?
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[Clint]

What she does on her own time is up to her. After I drop my garbage I'm either sleeping or on my way home, and I don't care what she's doing either way.


+1

[Treysdad]

you have to be very in touch with your own sexuality and be able to know what makes you feel good...if you don't "O" then you need to do some "soul searchin'"

More true words have never been spoken:mrgreen:

And on a side note, I have seen one, maybe two comments where someone has stated that they do not please themselves, it isn't their thing. Try it dammit. Even better, try it with your partner. You can't imagine what a turn on it is for the both of you:lol:

[ChristiMarie]

and this would be?:dunno:

I doubt anyone wants me to get into details.

[Treysdad]

I doubt anyone wants me to get into details.
:wave: I have noooooo problem with it. Explain away. Inquiring minds want to know:mrgreen:

[thereturnofdark]

I feel horrible if she doesn't have as least 2 orgasms before me. I feel like I failed and the sex was useless if she has none and I come...


bro you got issues........

[ChristiMarie]

:wave: I have noooooo problem with it. Explain away. Inquiring minds want to know:mrgreen:

:lol: Geez.

It's simple. Before we even start he kisses my neck/ears/chest/etc. and uses his hand on my clit. It gets me off once or twice before we even start. He uses his hand during sex and after as well. We started putting less and less importance on the actual act and it's helped alot. It's more personal now instead of just humping.

[Treysdad]

It's simple. Before we even start he kisses my neck/ears/chest/etc. and uses his hand on my clit. It gets me off once or twice before we even start. He uses his hand during sex and after as well. We started putting less and less importance on the actual act and it's helped alot. It's more personal now instead of just humping.

I got hung up on, "uses his hand on my clit." I'll come back later and read the rest. I got something to do right now:naughty:

[ChristiMarie]

I got hung up on, "uses his hand on my clit." I'll come back later and read the rest. I got something to do right now:naughty:

lol ew