Everyone has a past...

[Joann]

So you find out that the person you're in to has had sex with someone you cannot stand. Would you let that get in the way anything? Would you ask the person you're seeing to vow not to speak that persons name? ...or do you just deal with it because "everyone has a past"?

[NeC]

Why worry about something you werent a part of?

[DookieLuv!]

So are you making the rounds since the breakup??

[Joann]

So are you making the rounds since the breakup??


I'm talking about my sister, actually. ...but since you seem curious about it, yes...I've moved on. :)

I told her that what he's done in his past is nothing she can change, so don't stress over it. She says she's not sure if she can get it out of her mind that he's been with her. ...I guess it's something only she'll be able to work out.

[Joann]

Why worry about something you werent a part of?


You should know it's not me, lol. I stuck with Jay while I was disgusted about Mary :haha:

[NeC]

You should know it's not me, lol. I stuck with Jay while I was disgusted about Mary :haha:
Wasn't pointing you out in particular, just a general comment.

[ms. kat]

I don't think it would bother me too much. I can't say for sure because I'm not in this situation. It also would depend on who the person I hated was and how much I hated them.
I only really, truly, hate one person in this world and I doubt any man I may be interested in is going to have a homosexual relationship with my ex husband.

[ChristiMarie]

You can't change what happened. It was before her and had nothing to do with her.

[cel0ta]

i extremely HATE my boyfriends ex, i mean to the point that if she died in front of me, i would laugh, kick her, and then dance all over her grave. in fact if shes dead now, and i find out, i will probably throw a party. (and im not crazy. i have good reason.)

but i love my boyfriend and i realize thats his past. what am i going to do? be like "gosh why can't you go back in time and change that!"... doesn't work that way.

i can still hate her but i can't really be mad at him. anyway, who's with him now?

sometimes you just have to deal with shit. cause shit happens. dwelling on the past doesn't make anything better.

[NeENeRs]

meh everyone has a past..... but if i hated the person i would NOT want him bringing up her name and shit.

also, james would like to point out not everyone has a past. like, virgins.
also also, he'd like to add that "a past" means bad past.

he's giving me a hard time.
i'm gonna punt him

[Fatalia]

My ex was once with the biggest known slut in the area.... it bothered me at first, especially when we were around people and they all started talking about how they've all banged her. I got over it, he was with me, so eventually it didn't bother me so much... thinking about it now though... makes me shudder.

[Joann]

meh everyone has a past..... but if i hated the person i would NOT want him bringing up her name and shit.

also, james would like to point out not everyone has a past. like, virgins.
also also, he'd like to add that "a past" means bad past.

he's giving me a hard time.
i'm gonna punt him


Hit him once for me, too :haha:

[DookieLuv!]

I'm talking about my sister, actually. ...but since you seem curious about it, yes...I've moved on. :)

I told her that what he's done in his past is nothing she can change, so don't stress over it. She says she's not sure if she can get it out of her mind that he's been with her. ...I guess it's something only she'll be able to work out.Why did you guys break up anyways?

[Jeff]

Sometimes it's difficult to get over, but if I cared about the person, I would do my best to deal with my own demons.

[Gunslinger09]

I have a a past. I have a divorce with a child. My current wife has a past she wasn't a virgin when we met. Its no big deal in this day and age.

[Treysdad]

I have a a past. I have a divorce with a child. My current wife has a past she wasn't a virgin when we met. Its no big deal in this day and age.

*claps* ^in a praising voice - "Amen"^

[Joann]

Well, she's decided to deal with her own demons & put this chick aside I guess.

Why did you guys break up anyways?

He had a shit list of reasons including my drug use, him wanting to be single & we both had trust issues with each other.

[juke]

I think that if you let someone else's past bother you, then you have no right being in a relationship. As far as this example goes, I wouldn't care about such trivial things....she is with me, not him.