First date...

[Tackleberry]

girls, what do you do on your first dates with someone?

guys, what do you do on your first dates with someone?

discuss

[DookieLuv!]

I try to fuck them.

[X-clusive]

if i'm broke.....probably get some dessert and then find somewhere to chill, talk, etc.

if Ben Franklin is my friend for the week....probably a decent dinner, then play pool, drive around, go swimmin.

[...mikey]

im confused




post or prior roofie?

[ms. kat]

Talk, hang out, grab a bite to eat, go to a club or bar or a movie. It's whatever we feel like doing.

[...mikey]

ok i guess its pre roofie

i dont think i've ever gone on a real date :cry:

i mean, i've 'dated' girls.. but it wasn't something formal where im all clammy and spending hours debating on where to take her and trying to get everything perfect.. its always like.. goto dinner movie as friends.. at some point get frisky and boom we're k-i-s-s-i-n-g in a palm tree officially

maybe thats why im single, that was all highschool / college chicks

[K-ray]

i dont date.
but if i did, anything would be good. movie, dinner, jsut hanging out or whayever

[BAMF]

I try to fuck them.

+1. Same thing I try to do on EVERY date with them.

[MianoSM]

I usually try to come up with something out of the paper, like an Arena game, going to check out Bodies at Mosi, Go to the Dali Mueseum, take a dinner cruise, go on a little bike ride down to the beach(without gear). ; )

I don't want a girl that does the secks thing on the first date, too much - too fast for me. I like to work a 12 step program as much as possible - slow and steady wins the race. ; )

[Rdline1]

I am a gentleman. Must be why I get screwed in the end.

[BMack]

I like to do different things(dinner and a movie gets old) but I make it a point that we have at LEAST some time to talk.

oh I mean...

I take her someplace nice like steak and shake, no mcdonalds for my girl! I then procede to feed her fries and casually drop ketchup on her blouse, which I swiftly lick up(can't waste ketchup, there's starving children in some country i can't pronounce). After that bit of romantic-ness I take her hand and softly place it on my genitals and hand her a ten-spot. Back at my place I give her a c-note and we get busy... Later on, I drive her "home"

"Home" being that I punch her in the face and steal her purse(and any money she has aka MINE) and drop her off in the ghetto. I sprinkle some crack on her and head home. It's good times :)

[Strangeholliday]

all my gfs have always been just someone i've been forced to be around. whether it be at school, work or around friends. So there really is no date really.. just hanging out, one night get drunk or make her think i'm drunk enough to make moves on her.

Basically I use the drunkness as a safenet. If i make moves and shes not having it. I use the drunkness as an excuse and a simple sorry the next day will do..

Its exactly the same way girls have used alcohol to prove that they're not sluts.
" oh no. i was so drunk last night.. "

[BERT-O]

I am a gentleman. Must be why I get screwed in the end.

+1

Nice guys finish last..........:cool:

[NotSoEm0]

concerts - that way if Im not diggin them I can pretend Im so into the band that I can't talk to them or I tell them to STFU when they're trying to talk over the music.

[Kristin]

I like to grab dinner or maybe just drinks and then take a walk around the lake or something. Movies are nice but you should be able to talk to eachother on a first date and decide if you even want a second.

[Strangeholliday]

+1

Nice guys finish last..........:cool:

Or not at all.. Seriously.. the nice guy routine doesn't work.. give it up

[NeENeRs]

make out with him on my front porch at like 3:30 in the morning and talk until the sun comes up

[24-7]

I try to fuck them.

+1

[RichWarChild]

i forgot what a date was.

[ChristiMarie]

Go to a bar, get them drunk and take advantage of them.

[MicheleR]

I would just like to go out on a date :sad:

[Mars_302]

make out with him on my front porch at like 3:30 in the morning and talk until the sun comes up



why cant there be more like you

[Treysdad]

Who wants to date in a day and age such as this when the street walkers are getting better and better looking:dunno:

[Graves]

Whats a date? Is that the time prior to getting fucked where you eat and find out all the little idiosecrencies of the other person to give you reasons to not call in the morning?

[ChristiMarie]

why cant there be more like you

There are, but the only men that like us are either gay, almost gay or taken by a bitch.

[type-j-spec]

enjoy myself ,because even if the other person sucks ima have a good time.

[Lollypops]

it's been a while since i went on a date so i'd go for dinner and a movie!

[Treysdad]

it's been a while since i went on a date so i'd go for dinner and a movie!
Doesn't that get boring though:dunno:

[Fatalia]

Considering I've never really had a "date", I wouldn't know. :lol:

[BMack]

There are, but the only men that like us are either gay, almost gay or taken by a bitch.

Every woman says that but realistically that is not true. I'm sure that almost every woman here has at some point had a guy that liked her that was a good guy that she didn't want because he wasn't mr perfect... Then you probably proceeded to date an asshole that also wasn't mr perfect but added more drama to your life so you figured it was better. [/rant]

[ChristiMarie]

Every woman says that but realistically that is not true. I'm sure that almost every woman here has at some point had a guy that liked her that was a good guy that she didn't want because he wasn't mr perfect... Then you probably proceeded to date an asshole that also wasn't mr perfect but added more drama to your life so you figured it was better. [/rant]

I'm with Mr. Nice guy right now. I left an asshole to be with him. Like I said, they are either gay, almost gay or taken by a bitch. ;)

[Cammo]

First date with my current girl friend.

I sent her a text message asking her if she would to come to my apt. and spent an evening with me and Robert Mondavi. She agreed and we have been together for 8 months.

[Kojak]

Usually dinner at a nice restaurant, then afterwards do something that depends on what I think she would like...everyone is different. I have taken women to Bucs games and some to operas/museums/concerts etc. I try to get an idea of what she likes, or is into and go with that.

Last year I took a woman to the Bucs/Skins playoff game. She was a big Bucs fan and had never been to a game, so I thought this would be fun.

[Becky]

I don't date, i'm takeing a stab at this and saying getting some coffe and bs for a bit .

[Krazilyinlove712]

I havent had anything but 1 boyfriend b4 my fiancee. So ive only been with 2 people in the dating sense. Not alot of experience...but i would probably go to a dinner or grab something to eat and go to the beach, just b/c you get to talk more, and it's romatic but at the same time comfortable. I think you get to know the person more with food. (I love to eat...haha) If you's have no conversation, then you know he/ she not the one. Maybe just good for a friend.

[BMack]

^^^^^ lol

[Tackleberry]

I don't date, i'm takeing a stab at this and saying getting some coffe and bs for a bit .

so then what do you do then?

[Rdline1]

so then what do you do then?

she kills racoons.

[juke]

I'm with Kristin, movies are stupid because you cannot talk. Personally I like to take them to a fun place, my first date with my girlfriend...Hibachi. It's fun because you are forced in a big group. We were at a table with a family and they kept us in their conversation. Big laughs were had. Plus since she was the intern at my job I kind of knew her and what her personality was like. After dinner we went and had Gelato and then we went to play mini-golf (which should be called putt-putt), she beat me and after that I knew she was to be mine.

[obie]

Take them to the porn store and see how it goes from there......

[hixeclipse]

I usually do whatever i feel like doing. Maybe out for some dinner, if i do take them to the movies i take them to the drive-in..its different and you can still talk. My last date i went on i took her to the beach, and it started raining right when we got there...so she insisted we walk around in the rain, ate lunch, then went back to tampa...i played catch w/ her lol. Then sent her on her way....i guess she liked it because she called me up that night and came over ;)

[BERT-O]

I'm with Mr. Nice guy right now. I left an asshole to be with him. Like I said, they are either gay, almost gay or taken by a bitch. ;)


then....ur telling me i'm gay or almost gay. i feel better now! :lmao:

[Alli]

I'd like something that's fun... amusement parks... museums, aquariums. Put some thought into it...


+10000 .. maybe even a concert or shakespeare in the park over at Demens Landing in St. Pete... walk to the pier to get ice cream and go to the top floor and hang out/ talk, then go walk along the beach.

[ChristiMarie]

then....ur telling me i'm gay or almost gay. i feel better now! :lmao:

Better hurry up and find a bitch to date.

[Kojak]

+10000 .. maybe even a concert or shakespeare in the park over at Demens Landing in St. Pete... walk to the pier to get ice cream and go to the top floor and hang out/ talk, then go walk along the beach.


shakespeare in the park? Makes me think of the movie The Naked Gun. :lol:

BTW - Are you available Sat. night? :lol: This sounds fun to me.

[awesomepaulsome]

something i always like to do is just go for a walk. either at my favorite park, or at the mall. usually you get to know each other pretty well. plus you get some good chances to have stuff to talk about, you might see something weird, or pretty cool during your walk.

[Alli]

shakespeare in the park? Makes me think of the movie The Naked Gun. :lol:

BTW - Are you available Sat. night? :lol: This sounds fun to me.

:lol:

I don't think Shakespeare in the park is going on this Saturday!

[BMack]

I'm going to add that besides just being able to talk, I like to find a place that we can be alone and talk... maybe holding hands. All the little cute shit you do on a first date. And then maybe some PIITB.

[Treysdad]

I prefer to fuck on the first date. I mean that's the reason you date anyway right. Get to know someone just to see how they are in bed. Then you make a sound decision whether or not they are a keeper. So why not just fuck and get to know the inner person later.

[mrfli]

People still do that? I have not done the official goin on dates thing in years. I go with the flow.