Fatalia
10-09-2006, 08:45 PM
Honestly, I can't take this bullshit.....
My son asks to stay here while I run up to the Dollar Store and stuff... my mother says yes... he's about to get in the bath, I tell her this.
I go, I come back... just before his bedtime, she asks me to bring her the rugs out of the bathroom so she can wash them. Okay.
The floor... is flooded... I mean.. the entire floor, not just a corner near the tub.
I go into the garage with the waterlogged rugs and ask her if she's been in the bathroom at all while he was in there or since he's been out and saw the floor. She says yes, about five times, and to go clean it up.
I start to walk away and ask her "So you think this is my fault?" She says yes and to go clean it. I say "What the hell. He asked if he could stay here, you said yes. I asked you if you said he could stay here, you said yes, you weren't watching him, how is that my fault?"
She says "If you're going to bitch about then don't ask me to watch him anymore since you don't like how I do it."
You have no idea how badly I wanted to tell her how much it's going to suck when the water gets shut off because since she can't afford it and I won't pay it.
Oh yeah, forgot about that..... she asked if I could help out with the cable bill and the water bill. Fair enough.
By the way, this is the same woman that never babysits for me, or does -any- favors for me, yet asks me to loan her money all the time and not tell my father cause he'll get mad. I practically begged her to watch him so I can go to Hallowscream since I've never been and a group is going... she said "No, we like our weekends to go out." I'm only asking for one night here, mother!
I can't fucking stand her selfish bullshit anymore.... I have half a mind to not only tell my father she's been borrowing money from me ALOT in the last 6 months, but to also tell her I am not paying her fucking bills anymore either.
I understand I'm their daughter and I should help out, blah blah blah, but fucking shit, all I ask for is a little bit of respect.
I make less than a quarter what they make together. And yet, I need to help them out?!
All they ever do, both of them, is down me, and just be flat out mean to me when I try to have any kind of a conversation with them.
Not to mention that my son so rarely listens to me because, even though they heard me, or I tell them, they let him do things I told him no to. So now he has the idea that if I say no, to ask one of them and the answer will be yes. Or, if I tell him to do something, he flat out tells me "no.".
I'm so over them... and over this place altogether. I can't wait to get my apartment and cut off all contact with them..... my son will probably hate me for a while about it... but they infuence him to be mean to me, and that's unexceptable. I've talked to them about it... I get yelled at, because, as we all know, I'm the bad person here..... :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:
My son asks to stay here while I run up to the Dollar Store and stuff... my mother says yes... he's about to get in the bath, I tell her this.
I go, I come back... just before his bedtime, she asks me to bring her the rugs out of the bathroom so she can wash them. Okay.
The floor... is flooded... I mean.. the entire floor, not just a corner near the tub.
I go into the garage with the waterlogged rugs and ask her if she's been in the bathroom at all while he was in there or since he's been out and saw the floor. She says yes, about five times, and to go clean it up.
I start to walk away and ask her "So you think this is my fault?" She says yes and to go clean it. I say "What the hell. He asked if he could stay here, you said yes. I asked you if you said he could stay here, you said yes, you weren't watching him, how is that my fault?"
She says "If you're going to bitch about then don't ask me to watch him anymore since you don't like how I do it."
You have no idea how badly I wanted to tell her how much it's going to suck when the water gets shut off because since she can't afford it and I won't pay it.
Oh yeah, forgot about that..... she asked if I could help out with the cable bill and the water bill. Fair enough.
By the way, this is the same woman that never babysits for me, or does -any- favors for me, yet asks me to loan her money all the time and not tell my father cause he'll get mad. I practically begged her to watch him so I can go to Hallowscream since I've never been and a group is going... she said "No, we like our weekends to go out." I'm only asking for one night here, mother!
I can't fucking stand her selfish bullshit anymore.... I have half a mind to not only tell my father she's been borrowing money from me ALOT in the last 6 months, but to also tell her I am not paying her fucking bills anymore either.
I understand I'm their daughter and I should help out, blah blah blah, but fucking shit, all I ask for is a little bit of respect.
I make less than a quarter what they make together. And yet, I need to help them out?!
All they ever do, both of them, is down me, and just be flat out mean to me when I try to have any kind of a conversation with them.
Not to mention that my son so rarely listens to me because, even though they heard me, or I tell them, they let him do things I told him no to. So now he has the idea that if I say no, to ask one of them and the answer will be yes. Or, if I tell him to do something, he flat out tells me "no.".
I'm so over them... and over this place altogether. I can't wait to get my apartment and cut off all contact with them..... my son will probably hate me for a while about it... but they infuence him to be mean to me, and that's unexceptable. I've talked to them about it... I get yelled at, because, as we all know, I'm the bad person here..... :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: