Is it my place to say something in this situation?

[Cammo]

I wanna hear what input you people have.

A guy I used to work with has a bad rep of being a man whore. He has been dating this chick for about 2 years or so and they have broken up before cause she heard he was cheating on him.

I'm pretty good friends with the girl and I rarely hang out with her boy friend.
So this past weekend he had chicks all over him! He was making out with random chicks and often leaving with this one girl to do god knows what. He asked me if it was ok that he told his g/f that he was going to spend the night at my house but he was really going to fuck this girl he had just met.

I really hate lying to my friends but she just called me asking where her b/f was...I told her I left for work at 7am and his car was still at my house. :dunno:

Is it really worth telling my friend that her b/f is a lying cheating ass hole or is it not my place and let her find out the hard way, AGAIN?

[Vito_Corleone]

If she's a good friend, sure.

Ps. Be prepared for an ass-kicking though.

Pps. Is she hot? Hit it if so.

[Cammo]

If she's a good friend, sure.

Ps. Be prepared for an ass-kicking though.

Pps. Is she hot? Hit it if so.

She is really beautiful and her b/f weighs about 130 pounds :lol:

That would be my reason for telling her so I can fuck her.

[Vito_Corleone]

That would be my reason for telling her so I can fuck her.

I was wondering... Didn't want to come out and say it though.

If that's the reason, then hell yes.

[Alli]

Im in a similar situation, and I dont know whether to tell the girl or not. Its much more in depth/complicated. I honestly dont know. For almost a year now I have just bit my tongue.. I dont know either party well enough to call friends, but the girl is soon to be my room mate.

Probably not the best of advice, but what I would do is confront the guy. I'd probably just tell him to think about his actions and how it could affect his gf. I wouldnt tell the girl bc I know its not my place to, but Id at least chew out the guy's ass for doing what he did and putting you in the middle like that.

[Cammo]

I'm really not gonna lose any sleep if I don't sleep with her. She is really tall, not my style.


Girls, Would you want me to tell you?

[Cammo]

Probably not the best of advice, but what I would do is confront the guy. I'd probably just tell him to think about his actions and how it could affect his gf. I wouldnt tell the girl bc I know its not my place to, but Id at least chew out the guy's ass for doing what he did and putting you in the middle like that.

The guy is a complete dick to his g/f. He would start laughing if I confronted him then go hit on another random chick if his g/f wasnt around.

[Vito_Corleone]

The guy is a complete dick to his g/f. He would start laughing if I confronted him then go hit on another random chick if his g/f wasnt around.

:lmao:

I was gonna say "I'd just laugh at you and fuck some other girl".

[Cammo]

Typical Dick ^


:lol:

[Frankie]

Okay, I'm glad I read the whole thing before I replied, because I was going to call you a pussy for trying to sell out another man. I'm assuming he basically just stated, without asking, that he was going to lie and say he was at your house, and in the man rulebook, that's a big error. Had you agreed, it's fine, but since it was just forced on you, there's no shame in at least alluding to the fact that he was out fucking. Maybe something along the lines of, "I have no idea where he went after the party." Let him cover his own ass for putting you on the spot like that.

[Frankie]

P.S. - If he did ask and you were too pussy to say no, suck it up and reevaluate yourself. There's nothing wrong with telling a guy no in that situation.

[Alli]

Cammo I would want you to tell me!!!! As hard as I would take it, and may not believe it at first, I would definitely make myself more aware of the situation. And I would be more trusting of the guy that DID tell me.

So if she reacts the same way, then looks like she's got herself a rebound. :lol:

[Krystle Burger]

I'd wanna know. If that guy is really as small as you say he is then he's not a threat to you. Spare her the future pains she will deal with by telling her now....but if she's like most girls I'm sure she'll take him back as soon as he swears up and down that it isn't true..

[Rotary7]

1 word =brosbeforehoes /end

[Frankie]

1 word =brosbeforehoes /end

Agreed, but this guy claims that the other guy in question is not his bro. Does he still fall under the golden bros before hoes clause? He also hasn't made mention that he'd like to fuck the girl in this scenario, so it also may or may not fall under the things that niggas be sayin' to get the pussy law. This is a very shaded arguement, we're going to need more information:

1.) Would you consider this guy your bro?

2.) Would you like to dick down the girl in question?

3.) Did you agree to go along with the lie, or was it forced on you?

[Cammo]

Cammo I would want you to tell me!!!! As hard as I would take it, and may not believe it at first, I would definitely make myself more aware of the situation. And I would be more trusting of the guy that DID tell me.



Hypothecially speaking would you sleep with me to relieve your stress?

[NikkiXoXo]

If I was her I would want you to tell me , No matter how much it hurt .

[Frankie]

If I was her I would want you to tell me , No matter how much it hurt .

Typical girl response. It's invalid. :P

[Cammo]

1.) Would you consider this guy your bro?

2.) Would you like to dick down the girl in question?

3.) Did you agree to go along with the lie, or was it forced on you?

1.) We have known eachother for about a 2 years. We are cool when we see eachother but this is first time I have ever made plans with him.

2.)Yeah it would be nice but in all honesty she is a good friend of mine and I know she is getting dicked over more and more everyday....:lol: Who am I kidding? I would love to!

3.)Forced on me. It was one of those things when people lean over to you and kinda tell you a secret then move away to go back to what they were doing.

[Frankie]

1.) We have known eachother for about a 2 years. We are cool when we see eachother but this is first time I have ever made plans with him.

2.)Yeah it would be nice but in all honesty she is a good friend of mine and I know she is getting dicked over more and more everyday....:lol: Who am I kidding? I would love to!

3.)Forced on me. It was one of those things when people lean over to you and kinda tell you a secret then move away to go back to what they were doing.

Dude, you let him off easy then. Bros before hoes does not apply here, because someone you've hung out with once is not your bro. Additionally, this can be chalked up to things that niggas be sayin' to get the pussy, which any man can understand. Ultimately, since he forced the lie on you and did not ask, he violated the rules first. You have no ethical responsibility to cover for him.

In other words, you can definitely make references and vague gestures that he was not at your house and with another chick. If you want to be a stone cold dick, go all in, and try to drop the hammer on this chick, you can tell her that her boyfriend is a cheating scumbag and is also an asshole to you. If you choose the latter, it'd be best to do over dinner. Do it on a night when a club/bar you like is open too, 'cause it'll most likely end up there afterwards if you have any game at all.

[Rotary7]

rule #1
I wouldnt fuck friends girls,friends ex's
(maybe if I was drunk)

So I wouldnt use the "tell" so I can get pussy excuse.

Theres are times that I dont want to get involved in a situation like this in anyways.So its better just to stay quiet

[I'm Slow]

Okay, I'm glad I read the whole thing before I replied, because I was going to call you a pussy for trying to sell out another man. I'm assuming he basically just stated, without asking, that he was going to lie and say he was at your house, and in the man rulebook, that's a big error. Had you agreed, it's fine, but since it was just forced on you, there's no shame in at least alluding to the fact that he was out fucking. Maybe something along the lines of, "I have no idea where he went after the party." Let him cover his own ass for putting you on the spot like that.

P.S. - If he did ask and you were too pussy to say no, suck it up and reevaluate yourself. There's nothing wrong with telling a guy no in that situation.


+1 well spoken

[BareLy UgLy]

rule #1
I wouldnt fuck friends girls,friends ex's
(maybe if I was drunk)



you state a rule then attach a criteria to break it. amazing.

cammo: apparently he's not your bro and he's a prick. i say drop dime on the fucker once she asks you about his extracuricullar activities and hit it. hit it as much as you can.

[evelmunkey]

Defininately tell her. He is a douche.

[DookieLuv!]

I would never tell her, for one that would make me a huge hippocrite, and for two....bro's before ho's...even if its a guy you just met. I think the only reason you want to tell him is because your jealous that he had hoes all over him all night.

[Frankie]

I would never tell her, for one that would make me a huge hippocrite, and for two....bro's before ho's...even if its a guy you just met. I think the only reason you want to tell him is because your jealous that he had hoes all over him all night.

Will, I know we normally agree, but if every guy were my bro, I'd never get laid! Think about it, if every guy you meet is your bro, how are you going to pick up chicks at all? I know I've rarely met a single girl, and usually ended up selling out some guy. He wasn't my bro, which is what allowed me to do this.

[DookieLuv!]

Will, I know we normally agree, but if every guy were my bro, I'd never get laid! Think about it, if every guy you meet is your bro, how are you going to pick up chicks at all? I know I've rarely met a single girl, and usually ended up selling out some guy. He wasn't my bro, which is what allowed me to do this.I dunno, i just dont feel right about ratting a guy out, maybe if she was my friend and she asked me directly, then maybe. But the whole "guess what I saw last night" thing bothers me... The guy sounds like he doesnt care too much if he gets caught either way... Plus if he is anything like me he will smooth it over with her and convince her that he is lying and jumping to conclusions and doesnt know WTF hes talking about, thus ruining their friendship. Then make her feel bad for questioning my loyalty, and give her the ultimatum to stop talking to him of it will cause a conflict in our relationship. Girls are very dumb when it comes to relationships and will stay...just show that you care...

[Frankie]

I dunno, i just dont feel right about ratting a guy out, maybe if she was my friend and she asked me directly, then maybe. But the whole "guess what I saw last night" thing bothers me... The guy sounds like he doesnt care too much if he gets caught either way... Plus if he is anything like me he will smooth it over with her and convince her that he is lying and jumping to conclusions and doesnt know WTF hes talking about, thus ruining their friendship. Then make her feel bad for questioning my loyalty, and give her the ultimatum to stop talking to him of it will cause a conflict in our relationship. Girls are very dumb when it comes to relationships and will stay...just show that you care...

See, I knew we had common ground. I, personally, wouldn't go straight out and be like, "Hey, your man is fucking a bunch of hoes," for a bunch of reasons. A, I'd seem like a big sell-out pussy, and B, people normally believe the people they're fucking anyway. I would definitely drop hints though, and let her figure it out on her own. Afterwards, I'd go in for the kill, and ride the tan trail while her self-esteem was down. Girls with no self-esteem are way more prone to let you run it up the coal chute.

[Cammo]

I would never tell her, for one that would make me a huge hippocrite, and for two....bro's before ho's...even if its a guy you just met. I think the only reason you want to tell him is because your jealous that he had hoes all over him all night.


And I don't want to sound like a hippocrite becuase I'm basically giving girls another reason to talk shit about how bad guys are.

This thread wasn't made about jealousy, I'm just kinda tired of seeing her get dicked around. She's a good girl and I don't like to see my friends get hurt. His hoes aren't my types of hoes so it's all gravy, I was well taken care of that night ;)

[Euphoria]

Don't hang out with the guy anymore if you can help it for one. As for the girl, I am not sure I would tell her. That is dragging yourself right into the middle of it. I guess that's not the "right" thing to do but after being with the guy for 2 years, she isn't going to take this news well and will get you straight up involved. If you think telling her might get you in her pants, it might but she also might never get out of your pants aka rebound/trying to make ex jealous by being with u/attaching too quick.

My advice is to tell the guy not to use you anymore for covering up his assbaggetry so you are not in a position to have to break her the news she doesn't want to hear because you aren't going to lie to her. The dude is only thinking of himself so why should you go out of your way to help him be a dick? Just cut him loose and be there for your friend. If they broke up before because she found out he was cheating, she most likely will go back when she finds out again, which means you just got yourself into their drama for nothing.

[monkey paw]

a guy I knew was cheating on his girlfriend (a friend of mine), i let her onto the fact because he was a douche. well the guy totally fucked me over for unrelated reasons so I fucked his girlfriend (twice, once at night and again in the morning before I left), then she dumped him.

p.s. the guy still doesn't know, and we've hooked up since.

[Joann]

snitches get stitches. Let him do his thing. So many men do their own thing...what's one more?

[ms. kat]

Okay, I'm glad I read the whole thing before I replied, because I was going to call you a pussy for trying to sell out another man. I'm assuming he basically just stated, without asking, that he was going to lie and say he was at your house, and in the man rulebook, that's a big error. Had you agreed, it's fine, but since it was just forced on you, there's no shame in at least alluding to the fact that he was out fucking. Maybe something along the lines of, "I have no idea where he went after the party." Let him cover his own ass for putting you on the spot like that.

I agree with Frankie, you don't have to cover for him at all.

[fresh&clean]

I generally stay out of peoples business, I just wouldnt hang out with the guy anymore.

[Rotary7]

you state a rule then attach a criteria to break it. amazing.

cammo: apparently he's not your bro and he's a prick. i say drop dime on the fucker once she asks you about his extracuricullar activities and hit it. hit it as much as you can.


It was sarcasm,sorry I didnt put a laughing face behind it.

"dropping a dime" that something a snitch would say...

Oh wait look who am I talking to.. :lmao: <-- sarcasm

[Rotary7]

I generally stay out of peoples business, I just wouldnt hang out with the guy anymore.

This is the best answer on here.

[NeENeRs]

no one else has mentioned that she's a dumbass for getting back with him after he cheated on her before :dunno:

[BareLy UgLy]

It was sarcasm,sorry I didnt put a laughing face behind it.

"dropping a dime" that something a snitch would say...

Oh wait look who am I talking to.. :lmao: <-- sarcasm

you suck at sarcasm <----truth :lmao:

[Clint]

It's not your place to say anything, if you do, most likely he will lie to her, and convince her that you are just trying to break them up so you have a chance at her, and then he will convince her to never talk to you again.

Either stay out of it, and don't let him use you as a cover anymore, or see if you can steal his girl, he doesn't deserve her anyhow

[pureballer78]

WELCOME TO TF the home of the PLAYERHATERZ and COCKBLOCKER!

[Cammo]

Thanks for the advice...I'm not going to tell her but I won't cover his ass anymore. So yeah, it's not my place to say anything.

[MtuRbo2]

talk her into cheating with me to get back at her BF :)

[Cammo]

I don't think she digs mexicans....^

[Rotary7]

you suck at sarcasm <----truth :lmao:

You suck at life <------truth :lmao:

WELCOME TO TF the home of the PLAYERHATERZ and COCKBLOCKER!

TRUE!

[MtuRbo2]

I don't think she digs mexicans....^

IM NOT MEXICAN! cracka!!!

[MianoSM]

You should try and help her see whats going on without being obvious.

I don't care if its a guy or a girl, homeboy is weak if he can't be honest.

[Krazilyinlove712]

if a best friend i would think so. after all your the best friend.
Women should be respected (vice versa) so i would say something yes.

[Becky]

I wanna hear what input you people have.

A guy I used to work with has a bad rep of being a man whore. He has been dating this chick for about 2 years or so and they have broken up before cause she heard he was cheating on him.

I'm pretty good friends with the girl and I rarely hang out with her boy friend.
So this past weekend he had chicks all over him! He was making out with random chicks and often leaving with this one girl to do god knows what. He asked me if it was ok that he told his g/f that he was going to spend the night at my house but he was really going to fuck this girl he had just met.

I really hate lying to my friends but she just called me asking where her b/f was...I told her I left for work at 7am and his car was still at my house. :dunno:

Is it really worth telling my friend that her b/f is a lying cheating ass hole or is it not my place and let her find out the hard way, AGAIN? don't tell her, but don't lie for him . She need 's to find out for her self that he is a dog !!

[Becky]

I've learned ALOT from this thread thank's guy's :grin: