Stripper= Different Type of Girl?!?!

[driftin_EmOiata]

So, ya I went with a friend to drop his wife off at a strip club. They intraduced me to this girl. From the get go all she seemed like the coolest person. Well after about the third time seeing each other *keep in mind she never took a dime from me* She came to a lil get together at my house. Well ya we were all over each other. It now being like maybe the sixth time seeing each other outside of her job, I am starting to fall for her, not in love but like I really wanna start to actually date her and make it official. I don't know if she is playing around with me, or she is serious. She makes lil comments like "Your other girlfriend . . My other Boyfriend . . . *and to her daughter* My Anthony . . ." so it seems like we may be dating. But because I was told by everyone to never trust a stipper, I am finding it hard to actually talk to her, because well . . . I don't wanna put my effort into something that actually may be nothing more than a fling. Also keep in mind she has intruduced me to some of her family.

Should I just talk to her? Should I keep trying? Should I drop her, cuz all my friends say "she is a stripper, you can't trust her"

[Keith]

i saw just feel things out... everyone deserves a chance... but if you want to go by statistics then walk away now!!!

[Tackleberry]

yea, my roommate dated a stripper that was "not typical"...ended up being just as bad as the stereotyped ones. run now

[Josh]

run!

[fresh&clean]

Never, ever, ever, date a stripper. They sell their body for a reason, they are money hungry whores. That should be enough reason, I wouldnt even hit it personally STD are not worth the risk.

[Boston]

Yes. We call them whores. Does this really need a thread about it? I will tell you this though. They are fucking amazing in bed. Like Godamn what just happened amazing. I dated a former stripper who no longer stripped and still doesn't.

[Tackleberry]

they are not all great in bed.

[Boston]

Maybe it was you. Lol

[Tackleberry]

ive had better sex from women that were not strippers. strippers are just too much of a common fuck. i guess i held them to a higher standard

[Boston]

Lol. How do you reply to that?

[Tackleberry]

think about it, there job is to swoosh their cooch and ass across your dick...its like mass production to them.

[Kelleb]

eh, it seems like strippers usually have some serious psychological issues... but like anything else, you never know.

be cautious, but live a little. If you don't, you may miss out on something great!

[SSpiro]

+1.. what he said..^

[Tackleberry]

eh, it seems like strippers ALWAYS have some serious psychological issues... but like anything else, you never know.

be cautious, but live a little. If you don't, you may miss out on something great!
FIXED

[Fusion]

+1.. what he said..^

Uhhh yea...that's a female above you ace :lol:

[fresh&clean]

eh, it seems like strippers usually have some serious psychological issues... but like anything else, you never know.

be cautious, but live a little. If you don't, you may miss out on something great!

Since when is herpes great?

[Crab Cakes]

Shit drop here while you can, :lol: they are all problems and trust me im speeking from experience!

[Ian MMF]

I know plenty of strippers and have even dated a couple. If you can deal with what they do for a living and not let it bother you then so what? I know much more girls that are fucked up, money hungry whores that will fuck you over worse then most strippers will so to bash all girls who are strippers just cause of what they do for a living seems wrong to me. It's not like they are selling sex, they just dance around all night and get naked, so what? What guy here wouldn't do it if there was a big strip club for guys to work at and had nothing but women with money throwing it at them? Does it make everyone who would as fucked up money hungry whores as strippers?

Just treat her like a friend and keep hanging out and see what happens. Her name isn't brittany by the way is it? :lol:

[G-Ready]

I would not say all strippers are bad...the majority yea and its also depends on the establishment. Thats why you go for the bartenders at the strip club, you still mingle with the stippers and get to find out which ones are good ones when you dump the bartender. It all works out in the end!

[Banksy]

be cautious, but live a little. If you don't, you may miss out on something great!

Like VD!

[Kelleb]

Like VD!

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Don't you know, those girls are allll clean...

[Banksy]

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Don't you know, those girls are allll clean...

Just like they're all getting through college... :lol:

[BareLy UgLy]

So, ya I went with a friend to drop his wife off at a strip club. They intraduced me to this girl. From the get go all she seemed like the coolest person. Well after about the third time seeing each other *keep in mind she never took a dime from me* She came to a lil get together at my house. Well ya we were all over each other. It now being like maybe the sixth time seeing each other outside of her job, I am starting to fall for her, not in love but like I really wanna start to actually date her and make it official. I don't know if she is playing around with me, or she is serious. She makes lil comments like "Your other girlfriend . . My other Boyfriend . . . *and to her daughter* My Anthony . . ." so it seems like we may be dating. But because I was told by everyone to never trust a stipper, I am finding it hard to actually talk to her, because well . . . I don't wanna put my effort into something that actually may be nothing more than a fling. Also keep in mind she has intruduced me to some of her family.

Should I just talk to her? Should I keep trying? Should I drop her, cuz all my friends say "she is a stripper, you can't trust her"

how old are you? seriously?

stop categorizing people and don't judge until you get to know them. and stop using the word "lil"

[Homestar]

Couldn't ever do it.

Couldn't deal with her psychological issues.

Couldn't deal with what she does at work every night.

Couldn't deal with people asking me, "So what does your girlfriend do?"

Etc etc etc

[BERT-O]

Do It!!! And Let Us Know How It Turns Out, Screw All The Haters On Here!

[hacker style]

If you ever had a really rich friend who was really into strippers you would know that all strippers are prostitutes if enough cash is involved, and it's not like the odds of them being asked by one of these guys are one in a million either...

I'd never date one after seeing what Ive seen. :lol:

[WTFchuck]

\kid /thread

[driftin_EmOiata]

Well, I'm gonna be as catuious as I can be. But so far she has been a total sweet heart, and treats me better than any girl I have ever been with. She is very reserved, and she told me straight up, she is only doing this to care of her kid. I know its the typical stripper thing to say, but she is the most straight edge girl I have met. Not into drugs or anything, just drinks every once and awhile.

Like i said I'm gonna take this chance, but go into this very slowly and not put much on the line. So far I met some of her family, and she brought me around her kid. Which they said she doesn't do that unless she really likes a guy and wants to make things work with them.

[Treysdad]

Well, I'm gonna be as catuious as I can be. But so far she has been a total sweet heart, and treats me better than any girl I have ever been with. She is very reserved, and she told me straight up, she is only doing this to care of her kid. I know its the typical stripper thing to say, but she is the most straight edge girl I have met. Not into drugs or anything, just drinks every once and awhile.

Like i said I'm gonna take this chance, but go into this very slowly and not put much on the line. So far I met some of her family, and she brought me around her kid. Which they said she doesn't do that unless she really likes a guy and wants to make things work with them.

Do your thing man. If it works out great, if it doesn't, then you move on. You may have caught that one in a million. Peace!

[Frankie]

Strippers are fine people. I married one, it's no big deal.

[Frankie]

Couldn't ever do it.

Couldn't deal with her psychological issues.

Couldn't deal with what she does at work every night.

Couldn't deal with people asking me, "So what does your girlfriend do?"

Etc etc etc

So you're insecure?

[sleeperEK9]

she have any hot friends????

[NikkiXoXo]

I don't see what the big deal is :dunno: .. Try it, see what happens .. You won't know unless you try and you can't base it off of what everyone says !! Good Luck

[Mars_302]

id fuck one, id never date one

Whats funny is, the ppl that know have known a friend or have dated a stripper themselves so dont do it. The ppl that havent are telling you to go for it. Ive never done it, my best friend did though, 1 week into dating her calls her up and her live-in boyfriend picks up the phone.

[Treysdad]

Pics of said stripper and where she works?

[sleeperEK9]

Pics of said stripper and where she works?

fuck yeah im with this guy

[Na306StAnG]

Well, I'm gonna be as catuious as I can be. But so far she has been a total sweet heart, and treats me better than any girl I have ever been with. She is very reserved, and she told me straight up, she is only doing this to care of her kid. I know its the typical stripper thing to say, but she is the most straight edge girl I have met. Not into drugs or anything, just drinks every once and awhile.

Like i said I'm gonna take this chance, but go into this very slowly and not put much on the line. So far I met some of her family, and she brought me around her kid. Which they said she doesn't do that unless she really likes a guy and wants to make things work with them.

Good luck brother. Glad your going for it.

[I'm Phucked]

here are some things you should ask yourself...

1) Will a coke addiction hurt my relationship?
2) Does 4 DUI's this year mean there won't be a 5th
3) The vip room is just private dances???
4) [looking at penis] WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT?!?!?!

[fresh&clean]

My friend was dating a skripper and the first week they were going out she called him at like 2 in the am to move in with him :lmao:

[moldyhands]

seriously? i always laugh at all the e-pimps in here that aren't getting any ass that are so quick to give advice. if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl.

the fact is that 99% of relationships will not work out. the fact is that most women you date will turn out psycho - stripper or not. and the fact is, that 90% of the single guys in this thread saying "no to strippers" would drop their pants and date a stripper in a heart beat. most of those single guys can't get any ass on a regular basis anyway, so i wouldn't listen to them regarding women.

[emilye84]

For some, it's just a job. They have something that they can market and they are doing so. Don't group all strippers into the same category. It really seems like YOU don't care what she does, but you are worried about what other people will think.

[TNathe]

seriously? i always laugh at all the e-pimps in here that aren't getting any ass that are so quick to give advice. if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl.

the fact is that 99% of relationships will not work out. the fact is that most women you date will turn out psycho - stripper or not. and the fact is, that 90% of the single guys in this thread saying "no to strippers" would drop their pants and date a stripper in a heart beat. most of those single guys can't get any ass on a regular basis anyway, so i wouldn't listen to them regarding women.
:w/stupid: Sounds like you guys are really into each other and if that is in fact the case more power to you and we should all be so lucky :) If it doesn't work it doesn't work, but unless you take the path you never know where it'll lead.

BTW: strippers usually = $$$ as in....they have $$$ :) :lol:

[Frankie]

seriously? i always laugh at all the e-pimps in here that aren't getting any ass that are so quick to give advice. if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl.

the fact is that 99% of relationships will not work out. the fact is that most women you date will turn out psycho - stripper or not. and the fact is, that 90% of the single guys in this thread saying "no to strippers" would drop their pants and date a stripper in a heart beat. most of those single guys can't get any ass on a regular basis anyway, so i wouldn't listen to them regarding women.

Truth! My advice got seemingly ignored, and I like to think I'm qualified to speak on stripper-involved relationships.

[Headhunter]

I've dated and lived with strippers numerous times when I was young and naive. There was never a jealousy factor and I always respected their "work space" such as it is (i.e. never went in their clubs whilst they worked). But you have to understand what drives someone to that profession. Generally speaking, they're either not intelligent, not educated, have some type of chemical addiction, and come from terrible upbringings - either daddy was never around, or step daddy was around entirely too much.

Point is, they're fun to fuck, but if you're looking for a relationship the chances of anything working out long term are nil. Unless of course, you stem from the same socio-economic playing field.

[Krystle Burger]

I've dated and lived with strippers numerous times when I was young and naive. There was never a jealousy factor and I always respected their "work space" such as it is (i.e. never went in their clubs whilst they worked). But you have to understand what drives someone to that profession. Generally speaking, they're either not intelligent, not educated, have some type of chemical addiction, and come from terrible upbringings - either daddy was never around, or step daddy was around entirely too much.

Point is, they're fun to fuck, but if you're looking for a relationship the chances of anything working out long term are nil. Unless of course, you stem from the same socio-economic playing field.

exxxxxxactly.

[Krystle Burger]

seriously? i always laugh at all the e-pimps in here that aren't getting any ass that are so quick to give advice. if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl.

the fact is that 99% of relationships will not work out. the fact is that most women you date will turn out psycho - stripper or not. and the fact is, that 90% of the single guys in this thread saying "no to strippers" would drop their pants and date a stripper in a heart beat. most of those single guys can't get any ass on a regular basis anyway, so i wouldn't listen to them regarding women.

It's obvious that you posted this in spite of the guys who are claiming that they wouldn't date a stripper (as if they are being picky or something??). No, not everyone who posts on the internet is an ass ugly loser who would date any tramp who showed up on their doorstep. As well as I know some of the guys who responded in the this thread, I can say - for a FACT- that a girl who is in the business of "stripping" would not appeal to them. Believe it or not, many guys DO think with the heads on their shoulders and not the heads below their belts.

[Chuck 98 RT/10]

I've dated and lived with strippers numerous times when I was young and naive. There was never a jealousy factor and I always respected their "work space" such as it is (i.e. never went in their clubs whilst they worked). But you have to understand what drives someone to that profession. Generally speaking, they're either not intelligent, not educated, have some type of chemical addiction, and come from terrible upbringings - either daddy was never around, or step daddy was around entirely too much.

Point is, they're fun to fuck, but if you're looking for a relationship the chances of anything working out long term are nil. Unless of course, you stem from the same socio-economic playing field.

True 99.99999% of the time. So those of you who were lucky enough to find your soulmate by slipping a dollar in her snatch, consider yourself one of the lucky ones...I guess.

[Krystle Burger]

True 99.99999% of the time. So those of you who were lucky enough to find your soulmate by slipping a dollar in her snatch, consider yourself one of the lucky ones...I guess.

Yes.

To the creator of the thread: If things are as great as you're saying, go with it. You might be the greatest thing to ever happen to her and vice versa. If you're this far along, it's worth a shot.

[fresh&clean]

The reason I say no to strippers is baggage and strippers have alot of it. Yes I know a regular girl might have baggage but I also know she isnt riding some guys cock for 35 dollars and that makes me wonder.

[TNathe]

not every guy likes the same type of girls. c'mon. If he's happy let him be.

[Joe]

seriously? i always laugh at all the e-pimps in here that aren't getting any ass that are so quick to give advice. if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl.

the fact is that 99% of relationships will not work out. the fact is that most women you date will turn out psycho - stripper or not. and the fact is, that 90% of the single guys in this thread saying "no to strippers" would drop their pants and date a stripper in a heart beat. most of those single guys can't get any ass on a regular basis anyway, so i wouldn't listen to them regarding women.

Best advice yet...

[oh1coupe]

If you wanna keep on banging her, don't have "the talk"..period..the rest will work itself out.

[moldyhands]

It's obvious that you posted this in spite of the guys who are claiming that they wouldn't date a stripper (as if they are being picky or something??). No, not everyone who posts on the internet is an ass ugly loser who would date any tramp who showed up on their doorstep. As well as I know some of the guys who responded in the this thread, I can say - for a FACT- that a girl who is in the business of "stripping" would not appeal to them. Believe it or not, many guys DO think with the heads on their shoulders and not the heads below their belts.
my original advice had nothing to do with thinking with your penis. my advice was, "if her job doesn't bother you, then give her a chance just like you would any other girl".

i'm sure there are plenty of guys that wouldn't date a stripper. but 90% of the guys in this thread are saying they wouldn't date a stripper, and logic dictates that a good amount of them are lying (obviously strippers date people). personally, i wouldn't date a stripper. i wouldn't feel comfortable with her dancing on other men for a living and it would be bad for my career.

regardless, my advice was simply to give her a chance.

[driftin_EmOiata]

Ok, I will not give any pics and no I wont say where she works. She doesn't do any drugs, she only drinks at work. Like I said she is very responsible. She has her own 2 bedroom place. She just wants to raise her kid and not worry about money issues.

She is the most responsible girl I have ever met or dated.

[Iroc Joe]

Ok, I will not give any pics and no I wont say where she works. She doesn't do any drugs, she only drinks at work. Like I said she is very responsible. She has her own 2 bedroom place. She just wants to raise her kid and not worry about money issues.

She is the most responsible girl I have ever met or dated.

Dude, if this is the case, go for it. Just watch your ass, I believe is the dominant advice being given here. No, she might not be like 99.99% of her business associates, but the stereotype goes with the profession.

I personally probably would not date a stripper, I'm at the age now where I'm trying to find "the one" to take home and meet my mother. My mother is Italian, and Italian mothers, who later become Italian grandmothers, are cut from the EXACT same mold as Jewish mothers/grandmothers. On top of that, I want to pursue some kind of federal law enforcement job. The higher I can go the better and when doing background checks for top secret clearance, I don't know how favorably they would look upon dating a stripper. :dunno:

[Frankie]

I'm in loooooooooooooooooove with a stripper...

[Kelleb]

Man, this poor guy. I bet I could find at least half a dozen reasons why everyone who happens to have a SO on this board shouldn't be with them.

Go for it, just watch yourself - like you should in any other new dating situation.

[fresh&clean]

Man, this poor guy. I bet I could find at least half a dozen reasons why everyone who happens to have a SO on this board shouldn't be with them.

Go for it, just watch yourself - like you should in any other new dating situation.

Damn, with that reasoning I probably should of dated that crackhead!!!!!! FUUCCCKKK!!!

[TNathe]

You're a confuse individual guy. :lol: Crackheads will SELL your shit to buy more crack, strippers usually got money to BUY you shit. :lol:

[fresh&clean]

You're a confuse individual guy. :lol: Crackheads will SELL your shit to buy more crack, strippers usually got money to BUY you shit. :lol:

Hey man there are pros to dating a crackhead, aleast they arent worried what your doing in the middle of the night, they are to busy trying to find crack.

[Love Doctor]

Strippers are survivors. It's a great skill to have, but the problem with Strippers is that they "Survive" on a daily basis. If you style is a day to day thing and don't care for the long run... then this is a potential match for you.

The other problem is that with that line of work, your enviroment will always be about... well... that line of work, which is not much to it, therefore a person has a less of chance to grow and evolve into something more. Things might have been clear in the beginning, but after time in this enviroment... you go dark and lost. At this point, if you get near this type of person, they will drown you to save themselves (Which they never do and end up drowning you both)

PEACE-