Long-Term Relationships that END [Archive]

RichWarChild

06-13-2008, 11:58 AM

1st one i hope she's dead... she called me once telling me she had cancer and I laughed at her.. I really hope she's dead

2nd one didn't end badly, but we didn't talk for a long time but now we talk and meet up for drinks when I go back north.

billybongthorton

06-13-2008, 12:02 PM

the longest relationship ive been in was like 4 months and i made up something so i could break up with her i dont really like investing my time and money into a blackhole for to long, and i dont remember the last time i talked to her

KatieBang

06-13-2008, 12:12 PM

First one: It ended okay. We've had our up's and down's after the break-up trying to keep a friendship and we're good friends now.

Second one: Ended very badly and even after 4 years of being broken up, he still feels the need to check up on me however he can and randomly IM's me when his fiance isn't home to get pissed at him that he's talking to me. And he brings up our relationship/break-up every time we chat. Fun times.

Both cheated. Second one I lived with and he planned on proposing at our one-year, but I broke it off with him right before. Whoops.

MianoSM

06-13-2008, 12:13 PM

6 years over thousands of miles.

Started in High School, I moved away for four years, we lived together for a year afterwards,broke up, I moved to Africa, we hooked back up while I was in Africa, when I came back we both just ended it.

Just went to lunch yesterday, we can't hang out when drinking is involved, or one on one because we seem to still be attracted to one another. But living together is just not a possibility.

l2edneck

06-13-2008, 01:25 PM

ended mutually,we have a kid so we have to be friends.Thing is we are better as friends.

earlier one ended very badly and we never see each other.....

Rach

06-13-2008, 01:28 PM

My longest relationship was nearly 2 years of on again, off again BS. It was my first serious relationship and I was right out of high school. We broke up probably 6 or 7 times (yes it was one of those relationships), he cheated. We just stopped talking, not still friends. I don't know if he hates me or not, I don't hate him, I just don't respect him at all. I'm not friends with people I don't respect.

Chaddcl0ps

06-13-2008, 01:31 PM

uh, ended badly(SHE cheated), but now we are friends

Fatalia

06-13-2008, 01:43 PM

My first one ended kinda bad. But we do still talk. Once he realized some shit. 10 years later and he still makes it a point to tell me I'm hot and how he still loves me. We're still friends, after all, I'm still friends with the rest of his family, so I kinda have to deal with him. :lol:

Last actual serious one ended HORRIBLY. I won't get into details because it will start issues on here. I don't hate him, we did grow up together and I tend to easily forgive. But he hates me.

Rachael LLyn

06-13-2008, 02:03 PM

Longest was 3 1/2 yrs... Dated all through high school and ppl grow up & change, so I ended it, and we havent spoken since

nikki.

06-13-2008, 02:57 PM

5 years. Started in HS. He's a loser so I broke up with him. I stopped talking to him completely, and he sends me a message on myspace the other day asking for a "booty call". I threw up in my mouth. I would love it if I never saw him again. He gives me the heebie jeebies.

Alli

06-13-2008, 03:13 PM

I'd say my most serious relationship ended after a year and a half, but we still talk every single day. It's hard for me to NOT talk to him because I still have feelings for him although I'm trying to get over and past it. We broke up because I had stronger feelings for him as he did for me, and I am on a different path right now; If I'm in a relationship, I'm not in it for fun... my future with the person would very much be on my mind, and he just wasn't at that point in his life yet.

Now that we've broken up (somewhat mutual, 3 months ago), we have been getting along amazingly great thanks to not having the mental burden of "being in a relationship" and he claims to have stronger feelings for me NOW then he did at the time of break up. So who knows what will happen.

Plus, our relationship was long distance.. 4-5 hours when I'm away at school, and 1-1.5 hours when I'm home for the summer or breaks. Plus my car hasn't been the most reliable lately.

Mars_302

06-13-2008, 03:21 PM

5 years, I got the love you but not in love with you speech. She wanted to be friends, I didnt. We talked for al ittle while afterwords, that was about 4-5 years ago. Only ever spoken to her once in real life since then and that was just blind luck we ran into each other.

Alli

06-13-2008, 03:31 PM

5 years, I got the love you but not in love with you speech..

Bah, I hate that shit.
Or you get the "I love you" but they fail to specify that they just love you as a human being living in society but that's as far as it goes, so then a year down the road they realize that it sounded like they were telling you that they were IN love so they attempt to explain to you that they weren't.

:lol:

Cal

06-13-2008, 04:25 PM

other. she left me and i spent a year trying to get her back. she dated other guys and loved seeing me miserable but gave me just enough hope that id keep trying.

when she found out i had a new gf she flipped her shit and stormed out never to hear from her again (this was like 2 months ago).

she just wanted me to be miserable while she got w/e she wanted :lmao: :lmao: im such a chump

Panzerbane

06-13-2008, 04:44 PM

Other:3 years, Ended bad, wanted to kill each other, now we talk occasionally and are cordial and almost friendly.

ChristiMarie

06-13-2008, 05:09 PM

Ended on not so good terms for the first week. Then we were really good friends for a few months. Now we're happily back together.

billybongthorton

06-13-2008, 05:11 PM

Bah, I hate that shit.
Or you get the "I love you" but they fail to specify that they just love you as a human being living in society but that's as far as it goes, so then a year down the road they realize that it sounded like they were telling you that they were IN love so they attempt to explain to you that they weren't.

:lol:

:lol: at least you didnt get the i lub you pulled, this cat i used to play ball with with used that shit and he had like 5 girls (fugly bitches) and he used to say i lub you cause it sounds close to i love you and had them girls wrapped aqround his fingers fingers, well the nigga stole some of my jewlery, he was nowhere to be found so i called up every one of his girls and ratted him out and it wasnt pretty they all got together and set him up, im not really to sure on the deatails on what happened to him but it wasnt pretty when i saw him last he was in the hospital :lol: and i got my jewlery back and i took his 3 bongs

Alli

06-13-2008, 07:36 PM

:lol: at least you didnt get the i lub you pulled, this cat i used to play ball with with used that shit and he had like 5 girls (fugly bitches) and he used to say i lub you cause it sounds close to i love you and had them girls wrapped aqround his fingers fingers, well the nigga stole some of my jewlery, he was nowhere to be found so i called up every one of his girls and ratted him out and it wasnt pretty they all got together and set him up, im not really to sure on the deatails on what happened to him but it wasnt pretty when i saw him last he was in the hospital :lol: and i got my jewlery back and i took his 3 bongs

:lmao: :lmao:

LOL @ you taking his 3 bongs!!! hahahah
I lub you, i can has 1 of your 3?
(I'm JK, I don't even smoke, lol)

Holly Golightly

06-13-2008, 07:42 PM

:lol: at least you didnt get the i lub you pulled, this cat i used to play ball with with used that shit and he had like 5 girls (fugly bitches) and he used to say i lub you cause it sounds close to i love you and had them girls wrapped aqround his fingers fingers, well the nigga stole some of my jewlery, he was nowhere to be found so i called up every one of his girls and ratted him out and it wasnt pretty they all got together and set him up, im not really to sure on the deatails on what happened to him but it wasnt pretty when i saw him last he was in the hospital :lol: and i got my jewlery back and i took his 3 bongs

It took me two times of reading this to figure out that a cat means a person.

Alli

06-13-2008, 07:46 PM

It took me two times of reading this to figure out that a cat means a person.

:lol:
Every now and then I'll refer to pompous, old, rich men as Fat Cats.

nipster

06-13-2008, 08:05 PM

There was this one bitch that I actually saw more than once, that was a real buzzkill. She was all like, "why didnt you call me" or some bullshit

I dont love these hoez, I'm out the dooo...

DirtyShroomz

06-13-2008, 08:42 PM

Freelance

06-14-2008, 01:16 AM

16 months.

Ended horribly for both of us. Neither of us wanted to end the relationship, but extenuating circumstances caused it.

We still talk from time to time but it's definitely been the biggest event in my life...and not a great one.

Bekah

06-14-2008, 12:35 PM

1 year (first 'real' boyfriend) - I ended it. Random talks here and there.

2 year (best friend from HS) - ended somewhat bad, didn't talk for months, now we're close. He lives in Washington state and we talk on occasion.

2½ year (college bf) - ended bad, tried to rekindle things months later, ended somewhat mutually. We're on talking terms.

& then all my other 1 month to 8 month relationships are hit and miss. Some were bad breakups and I wish to never see them again, and others were mutual break-ups & we still talk on occasion.

DirtyShroomz

06-14-2008, 02:09 PM

I don't talk to any of my ex's except the mother of my child. Why the hell would I wanna talk to my exs, they're that for a reason.

BlackWind

06-14-2008, 02:21 PM

my first ended horribly, me finding out all kinds of bad things she did behind my back, now i absloutely hate her and would pay to see her head ripped off.
my second one was mostly good, but we did the break up go out again bullshit for the last of the two years and when it finally ended, i was a fucking mess. I got over it though, and learned so much about life and myself through it. Now i am very thankful we split, because i really wasnt happy with her at all...
I still miss her, im not going to lie, but i also know that talking to her is completely pointless, because there really isnt anything left to say...

billybongthorton

06-14-2008, 02:25 PM

They just discovered I got AIDS usually works pretty well for me

yea but see i dont want that to come back and bite me in the ass, i used i need to focus more on school, rather than tell her im beating the breaks off your best friend when you go to your dads house every other weekend

DirtyShroomz

06-14-2008, 02:30 PM

yea but see i dont want that to come back and bite me in the ass, i used i need to focus more on school, rather than tell her im beating the breaks off your best friend when you go to your dads house every other weekend
Come on bro... any true playa would have gotten the best friend and her... at the same time, then left both they ass ;)

billybongthorton

06-14-2008, 02:49 PM

Come on bro... any true playa would have gotten the best friend and her... at the same time, then left both they ass ;)

yea well im not a true playa i dont have that kind of luck and i would of prefered to keep my cock caus eif home girl would of found out thatd be the first thing that goes

Goop

06-14-2008, 04:26 PM

Never had a long term yet. I enjoy my single time too much to give it up for someone who doesn't have their head on straight. But for the short period of a couple month's.... Ended badly, but we are still friends.

SwiftTib

06-14-2008, 05:49 PM

3 years..other; ended mutually, but I initiated it. I gave it all in the relationship but he gave nothing back.

He wanted to stay friends but I just wanted him out of my life. If I ever do speak with him it is cordial..but really I want nothing to do with him. Don't need that toxicity in my life again.

cha0tic

06-15-2008, 03:06 AM

1st was a good relationship. it lasted two and half years, but it ended mutual i guess, we didnt talk for two years but now we talk on aim.

previous relationship i was dumped after year and half and then we were talking and fucking for past two months. i ended all ties with her two weeks ago, because im bored with her and ready for something new. now she ignores me, even though i broke it off in the nicest way possbile.

:jen:

06-15-2008, 06:17 PM

8 years. Ended badly. Never really talk. Left him in TN.

Aoshi

06-15-2008, 11:04 PM

2 years, ended pretty badly, she wants to be friends and we both still love eachother but theres just no way I can be around her.

emilye84

06-16-2008, 12:18 PM

Five years, he cheated, I cheated to get back at him, ended mutually, were friends for awhile, he hoped to rekindle, I didn't, we don't speak

One year, I ended it, we were friends for awhile but he wanted to get back together and I didn't so I stopped speaking to him

One and a half years, he broke up with me, got back together, broke up with me again, I stopped speaking to him and started seeing someone else, he begged me back and when I said no he stopped talking to me

Remembering all of this shit reminds me that I am so happy I don't have to deal with realtionship bullshit anymore.

Kristin

06-16-2008, 03:17 PM

Close to 4 years; started in high school.

Nothing happened, I just wanted to grow up and "find myself." I tried to break it off and he followed me around town dragging it out. I ended up moving south for a while to put an end to it and he decided I was the devil.

To this day he thinks I am the devil. Ran into him and his wife twice now and both times he left the place. I guess he's still a little upset. I would actually like to have a conversation since we shared so much in the past. :dunno:

DirtyShroomz

06-16-2008, 03:41 PM

^You cannot expect for someone that wanted you and you turned them down, after he has a WIFE, for him to talk to you. Not saying you are, but that makes you look like the bitter and upset one.

Kristin

06-16-2008, 04:26 PM

After he has a wife and kids would be a great time to say hi instead of running out of a eatery because I walked in. Obviously he has moved on so why would he care about me anymore? There isn't any reason to be an ass.

If anything, I think it proves that he hasn't grown up.

Freelance

06-16-2008, 05:58 PM

Euphoria

06-16-2008, 07:28 PM

3 years - left on bad terms...tried to be friends, which made things even worse than when we have left it. he messaged me on myspace a few times here and there..think he is married now with a kid on the way, but not sure since he went off my list when i was housecleaning my friends list awhile back.

1 year - eh terms...stayed friends for a couple of years then shit hit the fan when i started dating someone (my current) seriously..he turned into the biggest prick alive so see ya!

BlackWind

06-17-2008, 12:30 AM

maybe he missed you. Things ended badly with my ex cel0ta, but i still miss her. I know we wont ever be together again, we are just way to different now, but i do wish we could still be friends. Im married now to someone that makes me happy as hell, but it would still be nice to see her every now and again.
Oh well...maybe its for the best...